For me he was super codependent and overly attached and it made me feel smothered. I tried to talk to him about it but it was clear we just had different ideas of how a relationship should work and we were at our core incompatible. When I broke up with him he was completely devastated and super hurt and it’s ughhh I love you as a person but we’re not just meant for each other. Absolutely hated having to break his heart but it was for the best for both of us