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if a man is 30 and dates an 18 yr old, never trust him

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Anonymous 1d

As someone who was the 18 year old, trust OP

Anonymous 1d

was bouta comment “no shit sherlock” until I read the replies 🫩

Anonymous 1d

You’re right cuz if you’re that age and going for an 18 year old they’d say “it’s legal” yeah well if the law was younger they’d prob date that age. It’s not about the law it’s about morals.

Anonymous 22h

18 is literally a teenager. I wanted to be an adult so bad when I was 18 and now im 22 and still feel like a fkn kid. How can a 30 year old date a teenager I know it’s legal but that doesn’t make it moral or ethical

Anonymous 1d

Also I did not realize there were so many girls my age talking to 27-28 year old men too 😮

Anonymous 22h

Yall wouldnt have survived back in the day. My parents are 14 yrs apart and had a lovely 25 year marriage before my dad passed…..my boyfriend and I are 10 years apart and are also very happy….that doesn’t mean every situation like this is good, but its not every situation.

Anonymous 1d

Illegal and immoral are two very different words. Can you legally date an 18 year old at 30, sure, should you is a very different conversation for what you’re looking for out of it though.

Anonymous 1d

What if an 18 year-old man is cracking a 30 year-old?

Anonymous 1d

Should I trust a woman who is 12 years younger than her man

Anonymous 1d

Two adults btw

Anonymous 1d

If the lowest age they’ll go is the legal age, what’s stopping them from trying to fuck a 12 year old if that was the legal age?

Anonymous 12h

Our brains fully develop around 25

Anonymous 1d

No shit.

Anonymous 1d

What about a woman?

Anonymous 1d

Your brain doesn’t fully develop until 25. If you’re under that age you should stay in your age range. 18 and 30 are both at very different stages of life, the scenario is NEVER ok.

Anonymous 1d

If you’re 18 years old and you are around 30 year olds like that don’t trust your parents as well they are equally shit humans. Especially Mother and father too.

Anonymous 1d

Okayy but what if I’m 19 (I’m the girl)? 😅

Anonymous 1d

Hello where are you now

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Anonymous 1d

Yall just mad you can’t bag 18yr olds

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Anonymous

#3 1d

I’m 21 rn and I’d barely consider myself an adult. I often have to contact adultier adults for shit like taxes so I don’t get screwed by the IRS. Much less an 18 year old

Anonymous

#2 1d

Go to turbo tax and they do it. Also, everyone is different. When I graduated highschool by the end of freshman year in college (18) I was full time community college (not bragging about that lol), hit the gym, and worked Burger King to pay for my apartment. By 21, I was already giving up alcohol cause I’ve lived so many lives lol

Anonymous

#3 1d

And I’m not saying every 21 or 18 or any year old is like that, but a lot are. And a lot of those are victims to predatory behavior. Am I saying they’re pedos? No. But, I am saying it’s a bit concerning considering that there’s a large amount of life experience between them. I had a man tell me once that he preferred younger women because they weren’t as stuck in their ways and were more willing to go about things the way he wanted. That was my ex’s dad who was single for cheating. Shocker

Anonymous

#5 1d

Either way it’s predatory. There’s too much life experience between them. Men can be victims too

Anonymous

#2 1d

what if the man is happy and that’s exactly what he wants? And the woman doesn’t mind.?

Anonymous

#5 1d

I’m not saying it HAS to be predatory, but many times it is. There’s not one shoe that fits every foot, but there is an average shoe size for a reason

Anonymous

#2 1d

Nah it definitely is weird don’t get me wrong but, at the end of the day when you are a adult - you are a adult and there is only going forward and you make your own choices and suffer your own consequences. That’s what being an adult is haha that’s how we learn sadly. Have a goodnight!! Going to sleep :-)

Anonymous

#8 1d

OP isn’t saying it’s illegal they’re calling it morally questionable.

Anonymous

#2 1d

Say more

Anonymous

#5 1d

personal experience - biggest regret of my life

Anonymous

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Anonymous

OP 1d

Update: OP you saved me a lot of time and energy. Thank you

Anonymous

#8 1d

What if the 18 year goes after a mentally handicapped 30 year old who has the mind of a 12 year old, but the the build of the rock and a big penis.

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Anonymous

#21 1d

Them not wanting to

Anonymous

#22 1d

Dude if you’re over 18 you can do whatever. It shouldn’t be illegal to date a 30 y/o at 20 I’m crine

Anonymous

#22 1d

You are still a adult though?

Anonymous

#19 1d

Expect people literally say “it’s legal.” Meaning they just don’t want to catch a case. They don’t care.

Anonymous

#21 1d

Yeah some people but not anyone that’s dated an 18 year old lol. Same for k*lling kids, if they made abortion legal people would say “it’s legal though” and, wait, that DOES happen

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Anonymous

#19 1d

Both things actually happen. Are you slow? Also, most people who get abortions actually need them.

Anonymous

#21 1d

Most people that get them in the US wouldn’t die if they didn’t and if they were in that situation it’s not the same as a regular abortion.

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Anonymous

#19 1d

So wouldn’t die means that you don’t need to? My best friend was forced to carry an abusers child at 16 go fuck yourself. Limiting access to abortion raises more children in abusive homes.

Anonymous

#21 1d

Can yall continue this on dm I’m sick of the comment notifications

Anonymous

#21 1d

Yeah it means you don’t NEED to to live. Just because you were attacked doesn’t mean you can k*ll a kid gng. Why are you so mad all of a sudden?

Anonymous

#17 1d

Just delete the post then

Anonymous

#17 1d

You can always turn notifs off.

Anonymous

#19 1d

You’re not killing a child, you’re getting rid of a hunk of cells that literally is scientifically labeled as a parasite. I don’t care if you don’t want an abortion, you’re ok with children being raised in terrible conditions. You don’t care about children, you just want them born.

Anonymous

#21 1d

No, you’re killing your child. They’re scientifically labeled as a human fetus lol. You’re saying it’s ok to k*ll kids bc they’re poor?

Anonymous

#19 1d

So let me get this straight, I can’t prevent something from physically and mentally damaging me, but once it’s born, I can physically and mentally damage it? You’re proving my point.

Anonymous

#21 1d

You can’t either way

Anonymous

#19 1d

That’s not what you said.

Anonymous

#21 1d

Yeah it is. I’m saying that YOU are ok with k*lling kids just bc their family is poor. You said it’s ok to abort them if they have a poor family.

Anonymous

#19 1d

YOU are ok with raising children in unsafe homes. I’M ok with people aborting their fetus if they know they wouldn’t be able to give them a good life.

Anonymous

#19 1d

Nowhere did I say it was illegal. It’s highly unrecommended though. But you know what do I know right? Obviously you both at 18 had everything figured out. Paying your own bills, own apartment, you owned your cars, had stable income. You’re an adult, do whatever you want!

Anonymous

#22 1d

What does having money have to do with being an adult? Are poor people not adults?

Anonymous

#19 1d

Don’t poor people still pay their bills? I never said money = adult hood. I simply pointed out responsibilities you take on once you are an adult. You don’t think it’d be strange for you to be dating someone who can’t take care of themselves yet? Not because they don’t have the means but because they don’t know how to?

Anonymous

#24 22h

How old are you and how old is your bf, when did yall meet

Anonymous

#10 22h

Im 20, hes 30 and we met about a year ago.

Anonymous

#24 16h

ur a victim 💀💀💀 that’s weird ur bf is a creep idc how happy yall are but don’t try to act like this is normal

Anonymous

notmarcorubio 12h

Marco Rubio what are you doing here

Anonymous

#26 11h

See this guy gets it. Women want men with brains

Anonymous

#17 11h

I’m a girl 🖕🖕

Anonymous

#25 11h

I never said that its “normal” i just said that there are situations that it can happen where and be perfectly fine but there are situations where the man/ woman or whomever can have ill intent towards their younger partner. Idk why thats such a hard concept for people to grasp.

Anonymous

#24 11h

My parents were 16 years apart and now she’s married to someone 23 years older… both marriages were terrible. You see how anecdotal evidence doesn’t do anything?

Anonymous

#27 11h

I didn’t say every situation turns out well! I was just stating that it CAN happen & that people shouldn’t predestine someone’s relationship based on one factor alone.

Anonymous

#24 11h

Just because you can do something, doesn’t mean you should do something. Especially not because there’s an off chance it’ll be okay

Anonymous

#20 9h

Bitch wtf are you talking about