Niggas only do that shit when deep down they see romantic potential besides that we move on completely or just vibe till you decide you want to take it a step further. And this doesn’t mean he’s desperately waiting cause a guy with self respect will still do they thing with other women but if on the off chance u were like fuck it I want him he’ll most likely be willing to oblige that path. Compartmentalization is our strong suit for a reason.
The way guys and girls view relationships when you cut out all the fluff that we say about relationships to filter and appease other people it’s honestly similar, but starkly different. When you try to have a deep conversation and cut straight to the bare bones of it we all got our unique spin on the same shit but label it with different names so we think it’s different when it really isn’t or think she is the same whenever it still isn’t quite the same.