
milesd
You can have fundamental disagreements with someone on major topics but still be friends, because disagreements don’t make someone less humanThat’s also true, but I do think there’s disagreements that can be had that also don’t dehumanize me. Like I’m a black man, I can’t be friends with somebody who thinks being black is wrong, but I also wouldn’t hate that person, I’d go out of my way to show love to them because they evidently don’t know what that is