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Confessions 20h
I love him & I just want to quit seeking validation here and be present with him but god is it demoralizing when seemingly everything I say is met with an “okay…?” Like a “why are you telling me this”. Idk man you’re my partner & I want to talk to you.
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Anonymous 20h

It’s like I have to catch him at a good moment or else I’m just bothering/overstimulating him.

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Anonymous 20h

This includes being forward about sex btw. Last night you’d have thought I was a stranger approaching him on the street when I referenced it. Sorry are you the only one who gets to be horny around here? Tough luck buddy.

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Anonymous 20h

Ask him sweetly to consider how he would feel if you did it back to him when he tells you about smth he cares about. And ask him to consider the scale at which it would hurt him bc you guys care about each other 🫶. I have to do this with my man allllll the time and then he switches back to being a sweetie. They need to be taught low-key

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Anonymous 20h

Bros an L can’t make a thing work if he don’t look as you as human. I seen my bros do this and I had to tell em to stop being a objectifier

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Anonymous replying to -> qtieee 20h

He is not receptive to feedback. Anytime I try to approach him about how something he’s doing makes me feel, he treats it like an attack. Sometimes he’ll still quietly change afterward but I don’t feel like dealing with that initial argument. He legitimately thinks he’s entitled to be irritable and terse with me whenever he feels like it, he’s essentially told me so.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

He’s a man child you may have to say “ this isn’t a personal attack or anything against you this is just about expressing my hurt and where I’m coming from.” He sounds really selfish, toxic and unable to do any inner work. I’m sorry you are dealing with that

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Anonymous replying to -> qtieee 20h

It doesn’t really matter how I preface it, the reaction is the same. It can be really tough loving someone who has such a discrepancy in EQ. But the good times can be so good that I gaslight myself into feeling guilty for ever being unhappy.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

I’m sorry hon

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