Absolutely :/ I also have BPD, which my fiancé has helped me with a ton, but I know that if he ever leaves it could actually kill me. I’d never tell him that though, but I think he understands that after seeing me at my absolute worst when we started dating. It’s tough because I will always attach to people as intensely as possible right away, and I can’t pick up on the signs of them pulling away. We’ve been through so much and stayed happily together, but what if he just changes his mind?