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Going from living together and spending all your free time with someone to strangers is actually the most lonely feeling in the world. Like what do you mean there will be a day that we look at each other and see nothing.
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Anonymous 6w

I’m so happy with my fiancé, it’s been more than 4 years and we work perfectly together, but almost every ex before ended things abruptly and seemingly out of nowhere. It’s terrifying to put so much trust in one person. And I feel guilty for waiting for the other shoe to drop

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Anonymous 6w

I lost my friend and my home but also I wasn’t going to put up with being with someone that didn’t appreciate me and kept looking for something outside of us. I didn’t even get a why he did that

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Anonymous 6w

I feel this so freaking hard. I was together with my ex for 4.5 years and it’s really tough losing your best friend

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Anonymous 6w

It’s not that you won’t see anything. Both of you will always remember the time you spent together. Sometimes it’s just better to be separate than together.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

We are in this together 🫶🏻 it will get better for us

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

I get that you only know being left and when things are good they seem too good. It’s almost like you can’t help but think what’s going to happen.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Absolutely :/ I also have BPD, which my fiancé has helped me with a ton, but I know that if he ever leaves it could actually kill me. I’d never tell him that though, but I think he understands that after seeing me at my absolute worst when we started dating. It’s tough because I will always attach to people as intensely as possible right away, and I can’t pick up on the signs of them pulling away. We’ve been through so much and stayed happily together, but what if he just changes his mind?

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