Yo if you want to date someone and you want them to be emotionally vulnerable with you really think if that person was to say some trauma from their past to you and if you look at them differently after that with (in a disgust way) don’t date
Yo fr not everyone who’s traumatized has socially acceptable symptoms (not like being abusive) but like I don’t have a big reaction to big moments bc my nervous system is fried and my ex continuously told me I must feel nothing :/