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is it cheating if I’m hanging around with a guy but like friendly yk studying tg, going out between breaks. we eachothers only friend at college.i opened up n told him abt my bf ghosting me for a month and he spent the day “showing” what a bf supposed be
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Anonymous 4w

it's borderline getting there. there wasn't a problem until the last sentence

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Anonymous 4w

So sounds like your boyfriend is a pos cause ghosting someone for a month and you not breaking up with them is literally insane and your “friend” definitely has a crush and is waiting for a opportunity lol

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Anonymous 4w

If your “bf” ghosts you for a month he isn’t your bf and wtf do you think he’s doing during that month? Yeah.

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Anonymous 4w

can’t believe you need somebody to spell it out for you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

oml Im stressing thank u

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

u need to set boundaries that u appreciate how he wanted to show u that, but that u r dating ur bf and want to stay just friends w him and that if that doesn't sound like something he can stick with then yall prob should hangout less (unless ofc u like ur friend more than ur bf, id kick the bf to the curb bc ghosting for a month is unforgivable territory)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

i mentioned being js friends before and he agreed cuz he said he never dating again. at the same time tho he be acting like he is my bf after i told him my issues yk buying me stuff n playing around ! genuinely thank u for the advice 😭 felt kinda lost before

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

bro its hard it’s my bf of 2 years 😭 hoping it js a phase

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

def have another convo about ur boundaries then‼️‼️ he sounds like a fuckboy anyways definitely wouldn't be worth complicating ur relationship over either

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