Anonymous #1 2w

He won’t because I don’t want to have shower sex therefore he won’t shower with me

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Anonymous OP 2w

oh damn, sorry to break it to you but you might just want to break up wit him tbh

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Anonymous #1 2w

I just want to try to bring it up but I don’t want it to come off as asshole-ish

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Anonymous OP 2w

you just gotta set boundaries, your feelings and needs matter just as much as his and if he can’t see or understand that then it’s not gonna be worth it in the long run-i had a boyfriend like that except he stopped brushing his teeth after two weeks of us being tg and refused to do it after i talked w him and i am sm happier and better off w out him cause now i gotta man who respects my boundaries as well as his body and self

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Anonymous #1 2w

Ah yeah. I just know I’m a lot bc of my germ issues. I won’t eat leftovers. Won’t drink or eat after him. I wipe my mouth after kissing. I’m a lot. I’m just REALLY bad at setting boundaries with someone who already puts up with so much from me. Like I don’t think we have had sex in 2 months

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Anonymous OP 2w

We would get along very well if we dated lmao 😂😂 I totally get you

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Anonymous OP 2w

and that’s ok to have a germ issue, it’s not something you can help but intimacy matters in relationships and it’s really hard to make it work and be happy if it doesn’t exist. i am really bad at setting them to so what i do is typically write a letter about it or i just have to force myself to stand up for myself but i do completely understand where you’re coming from

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Anonymous #1 2w

Sometimes I wish I could just send brain waves explaining how I’m feeling 🥲

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Anonymous OP 2w

me too😭 i need people to read my mind

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Anonymous #2 2w

It’s really annoying for most people. I wouldn’t even say I’m a clean freak I just don’t want germs around me. Like if someone sneezes in the car I HAVE to roll down the window. Idc I can FEEL the germs in the air

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Anonymous #1 2w

Not all the time tho bc of my boss could read my mind I’d be fiiiirrreeed

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Anonymous OP 2w

so real 😭

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