Anonymous #1 1w

Many ppl have diff opinions on this

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Anonymous OP 1w

And that’s why it’s slut shaming

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Anonymous #1 1w

like it's a part of life for some people. why can't people just enjoy having sex or not having sex

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Anonymous #2 1w

They can, and people can feel how they want about it.

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Anonymous #3 1w

It can apply to men and women. You can call it sexism and outdated thinking but it is still just judgement and people are entitled to their opinions and beliefs. It’s literally purely based on action. You may not like it but people will feel this way.

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Anonymous #3 1w

No one is free from judgement for their actions. You can not absolve accountability.

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Anonymous OP 1w

I said usually because it’s true, most slutshaming occurs towards women. A man who has slept with multiple girls is labeled a player and a man, but a woman who has slept with multiple men is labeled a slut or ran through. Judgement is also not a good thing, judging someone based on surface level actions unless they are inherently immoral (ie crimes or obviously bad things) is ALSO outdated and people should look more towards who the person is rather than judging them in seconds.

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Anonymous OP 1w

Obviously, but certain types of judgement is not accountability it is just judgemental just to place a label on someone based on who you perceive that person to be despite you not knowing anything about them. And slutshaming is judging someone based on their sexual experiences which is not only none of your business but also irrelevant towards that person’s dignity bc sex is just sex, it’s a positive thing when consensual and shouldn’t be shamed unless it’s being done immorally (ie r@pe or abuse

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Anonymous #3 1w

Yeah these are all your opinions and not everyone else’s. If a man is labeled as a player, but faces no negative judgement, as opposed to women, that’s just indicating a difference in opinion between the sexes. Personally I believe women should hold men to the same standards. Regardless. You think ppl shouldn’t be judged for their actions, that’s illogical. You are not free of judgment for any actions, whether you like it or not.

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Anonymous #3 1w

Lmao who the person is, that’s literally their actions and behavior.

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Anonymous OP 1w

Obv people have different opinions I’m just revealing the background behind the opinions and how most are routed in sexist and close minded beliefs or prejudices for either sex

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Anonymous #4 1w

Thank you!!

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Anonymous #4 1w

It’s historically been used to shame sluts. Women can do the same for men, and imo should. Regardless, it’s just judgement based on actions.

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Anonymous #4 1w

redundant **

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Anonymous OP 1w

just because you choose to use the word differently than it is used practically by society to shame women doesn’t mean your definition of the word is correct, it just means you don’t understand the definition. A slut is a promiscuous woman.

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Anonymous #3 1w

regardless, many hold these opinions without being sexist, close minded, prejudiced, they grew up with a open minded progressive upbringing. Judgement based on behavior is the fairest form, as opposed to strictly appearances, it’s not like ppl have these opinions ONLY bc others have, it’s a view many come to on their own.

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Anonymous OP 1w

This is true, but for what you’re talking about which is slut shaming, it is by definition targeted towards women and a judgement routed in hundreds of years of sexism and sex shaming.

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Anonymous #4 1w

Wow it’s almost as if the definition isnt standard and the word’s connotation is different…. Men get called sluts lmao

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Anonymous #4 1w

Ok? And men get called sluts now too. If ur arguing to just argue, idrc. There’s no winning or losing with a gotcha here. Doesnt change ppl think differently whether you like it or not.

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Anonymous OP 1w

and it doesn’t hold the same weight if you were to call a woman that

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Anonymous #4 1w

Ok and?

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Anonymous #3 1w

And ppl are free to judge. I’m not just gonna do something and get mad when ppl don’t like it. They’re allowed to feel how they do.

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Anonymous OP 1w

Sure anyone can feel how they’d like, but freedom of opinion doesn’t mean your opinion is correct or backed morally. If you say you believe slavery should be brought back bc that’s your opinion, you’re technically allowed to have that opinion, but it’s not a morally backed opinion and therefore shouldn’t be normalized or socially accepted just like slut shaming

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Anonymous OP 1w

there is no argument I just gave you a definition and you’re defensive 🥲 my actual argument would be: It doesn’t matter what men get called now. The implications of that word being used against a woman are disgusting. Women are taught that sex is meant as a “gift” for husbands. Men are taught that women are sexual objects and the more women they fuck adds value to them. Sex decreases values in women but increases value in men.

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Anonymous OP 1w

ok and you’re just a man sybau

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Anonymous #4 1w

ILY 😭

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Anonymous #4 1w

Hoes mad lmao

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Anonymous #3 1w

Opinions aren’t correct or right or wrong, that’s what opinion means. it’s not even at all in the slightest morally equivalent to compare not liking promiscuous behavior to owning slaves. Arguing to extremes here is useless. At least in America our morals are western, but like you said, yes, opinions can be aligned or not with morals. Different cultures feel very differently about all this as well.

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Anonymous #3 1w

Just bc it’s not ur opinion doesnt mean others cant have it. You need to accept reality. Not everyone agrees with you, many find slutlike behavior reprehensible, and theyre free to do so. Judging based on action is normal. It always will be.

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Anonymous #4 1w

These views aren’t universal. Simply put. You speak in extremes when all I’ve done is say ppl are free to judge based on actions.

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Anonymous #4 1w

As another man, you tell him

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Anonymous #5 1w

Yk, I’m ok with u being mad. I understand that others thinks differently and judge differently. Somehow the same doesnt apply for u guys.

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Anonymous OP 1w

Yk, you called me a hoe. do you need me to explain to you the societal meanings of that word too, or are you going to gaslight me and tell me you’re referring to me as the gardening tool? It’s ironic to me that you use the same manipulative tactics in your arguments that other men use to get women to sleep with them but instead you use your profound gift to shame men and women online for having more sex than you. My guess is you’re ugly. Have you tried male makeup, or dick augmentation? Therapy?

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Anonymous #4 1w

You can insult based on sex as that is your only perceived value, but Ive literally almost been raped by girls on two separate occasions. Yeah, I called you a hoe. And I’m free to do so. I respect my body and I’m not going to have sex with just anybody. Too bad

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Anonymous OP 1w

what were you wearing?

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Anonymous OP 1w

were you dressed like a hoe? the jokes write themselves

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Anonymous #4 1w

Hoodie and cargos

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Anonymous #4 1w

And lingerie 😂

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Anonymous #4 1w

Yeah youre a weirdo for making fun of rape victims youre clearly unable to control your emotions and weak minded

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Anonymous #7 1w

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