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boyfriend broke up with me to focus on himself… is he being fr or is it just an excuse
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Anonymous 6w

When I broke up with my ex of 5 yrs it was because we both needed to actually work on ourselves. I still love him and want what’s best for him in all ways but while working on myself I came to know our time had passed and we’ve stayed split but text almost every day. Sometimes relationships shift and change but not always.

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Anonymous 6w

Probably being fr. Dating is overrated. You grow way more as a person when you’re single

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

do you still love him romantically or just as a friend? do you know how he feels? did you guys keep texting right after the breakup or was there a period of no contact?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Just as a friend now, in another world we would’ve been endgame tho. I still compare guys to him cause of how well he treated me. There was a few months of extremely low contact before it wasn’t so painful. He and I have always communicated excruciatingly clearly and it’s been 3 years and we still talk so if he’s hurting in anyway he has hidden it very well.

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