I (f21) have mostly guy friends, I have 2 or 3 good girl friends, the rest of the girls I know I’ve got issues with or they have issues with me, like 1 girl is my exes gf and she wants to kick my ass for idek what reason, the next is my friends gf and I give her full transparency with mine and his relationship, it is purely platonic and I have absolutely ZERO interest in anything more than that, this other girl was my best friend but she’s also my exes gfs best friend and her and I used to talk-
Every day and now we don’t talk at all so now I feel like my exes gf has either told her shit abt me that isn’t true or just something happened maybe I did something wrong but I genuinely don’t know what. Now back to my friends gf oml I do so much for these people and she says she “doesn’t trust me” like girl 😭 you’re always with him you can literally access his phone whenever you want, I’ve given you opportunities to go through mine and his texts but you say no every time, wtf do you want from
Me? To stop being friends with him? I genuinely don’t know what you want from me. And maybe I am the problem, since he’s told me about what she said (including lying about the lease owner, another one of my friends, not wanting me around anymore and being annoyed with me) I’ve stopped coming around as much and just stick to myself now, like I don’t know maybe I am the problem and I just don’t realize it
From what I’m saying I guess not but this is just my perspective I don’t understand their perspective because neither one of them want to grow up and talk to me about their issues with me, my exes gf talks shit about me to his family and my friends, and my friends gf talks shit to him that he tells me and I just don’t know anymore