
Girls struggle with it too, not many people realize that. But people just normalize sex outside of marriage and that’s where a lot of people go wrong. Bc they think porn and sex are just things to do on a daily basis and that it won’t affect them later on. But it will. Once you’re married but won’t be as special and unique as it was intended to be. But again, girls like me struggle with it, it’s a temptation that’s hard to overcome. You just have to wake up everyday and fight the urges and run.
As a bi guy straight and gay porn are both disgusting af especially studio shit. It’s so corny then it just turns into machine like fucking. If I have to watch I’ll watch the foreplay, until they fuck because I can’t stand that drilling and even then I’m laughing at how stupid the plot line is.
The effort to pursuing a real woman who has thoughts goals and aspirations and isn’t just some hole to be used is not enticing when the common notion is that they are. In porn that is how they are portrayed, so when a man meets a woman that shatters that perception it is uncomfortable for all parties involved