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i hate being horny as a guy bc it makes me feel really trashy and i would never be disrespectful or forward i just feel like shit bc im too scared to even flirt
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Anonymous 1w

there’s nothing trashy abt being horny it’s a natural human reaction. what’s trashy is harassing someone and using your horniness as an excuse. flirting takes practice and it’s easier if you feel good abt your looks. just be polite and be okay with no for an answer

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Anonymous 1w

but im this guy in Lars and the Real Girl

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

okay thanks its just i feel like flirting isnt for me i much prefer being sweet and genuine

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

you can flirt in a sweet and genuine way too! in fact a lot of people prefer that kind of flirtation—complimenting people on choices they made (i.e. things they have control over as opposed to natural features of their body), praising their personality in earnest, that sort of thing

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

oh man I haven’t thought about that movie in like an entire decade 💀 idk I believe in you though. self-awareness and conscious intent to Not be a creep = very desirable traits in a man

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

thanks twin, ive got enough confidence to be aware im not creepy or socially awkward i just dont have enough confidence to do anything about it lol

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