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The idea that sexual predators only target attractive women is actually both victim blaming and is the reason why women who are fat or ugly get disbelieved when they get assaulted or harassed
Yeah i’ve had a good life but I’ve also been harassed and cat called since I was 8, including a grown man telling me he wanted to fuck my ass. But hey nobody cares abt that amirite 😃
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Anonymous 13h

No one said ugly women dont get it too but its almost guaranteed for me to have someone say something vile or touch me without my permission daily and its not because im ugly

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Anonymous 10h

This wasn’t the take you thought it was

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13h

It’s almost guaranteed for ugly women too. It’s almost guaranteed for all women.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

Yeah and i never said it wasnt. Should i just not speak up about abuse because im pretty?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

And i have talked to other women and they have confirmed i have it really bad

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13h

I think when you say “being pretty is so hard because I get sexually harassed” you’re silently saying that if you weren’t pretty you wouldn’t be. Maybe you don’t even realize it but that’s the implication. I think that’s bad to say 🤷🏼‍♂️

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

I think i fit a lot of men's toxic stereotypes about blonde white women because i am the definition of that. Its not just because i am pretty its because i am fetishized, infantilized and targeted because i am basically a fetish for lots of men

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13h

Dude you’re really digging yourself into a deeper hole. I’d suggest you examine your biases and maybe your ego. Stop discounting the experiences of women you believe to be “uglier” than you.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

Girl i dont think anyone is ugly i think you're offended you dont have enough confidence to put yourself on my level. Im probably not all that but the people in my life and i believe i am pretty. Sorry you cant put aside your own insecurities to have a real conversation and are focusing on something i never said

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12h

I’m a man.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

Ok yeah case in point. You have absolutely 0 idea the things i get told about myself daily. Things that make my friend's jaws drop to the floor. Things they say a man would never say to them. Do i just act like my experience isnt real because it makes others insecure? Im allowed to say im pretty and im not putting anyone else down

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9h

Yeah fr op never implied any of this lmao

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