It alienates male allies regardless even if they know they’re not doing anything wrong and still fuels a cycle of misogyny and misandry at the end of the day. The gender wars aren’t meant to promote a patriarchy or a matriarchy, it shows why both are bad
Maybe it’s because most men are like you, incapable of acknowledging that misogyny is a major problem in our society and opting to yell “it’s not all men” instead of actually advocate for women