question, when yall r doing long distance with a girl, do yall ever get a little worried whenever she goes out to like, bars or frats or is in a sorority going to mixers and whatnot. i rlly dont wanna worry my bf but i love to party
if you trust your partner there’s nothing to worry about. i’ve never understood this fear bc if you think they’ll do something why are you with them? if someone wants to cheat they’ll find a way regardless of what situation they’re in
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Anonymous2w
Yes ofc they get a lil worried bc they’re not there with you
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Anonymous#22w
i agree. i always text him and reassure him but im starting to think he’s starting to care less. i told him guys kept touching me and all he said was “that’s crazy”
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AnonymousOP2w
Cuz he knows ur cheating on him
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AnonymousOP2w
wait that is crazy bc i’d at least ask if my gf was okay after that?? it’s weird af to be touched by men you don’t know especially when you’re out 😭
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Anonymous#12w
if she was cheating why would she tell him dumbass 😭😭
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Anonymous#12w
like do you actually think someone who cheats is telling their partner they were being touched?? ofc not
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Anonymous#22w
dude i know. it was insane. but i don’t want him to think
i’m trying to make him jealous??? like im deadass telling u the guys here r creepy
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Anonymous#22w
Yes? You never know there’s so many ways he could be thinking of
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AnonymousOP2w
So why do you keep going if the guys are creepy?
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Anonymous#12w
i’m in a sorority sweetheart 😭 we’re going to be going out. plus i should be allowed to go have drinks w my friends without some guy grabbing my arm or waist
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AnonymousOP2w
Okay so from what you’re saying, never date anyone in a sorority
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Anonymous#12w
if that’s your takeaway then perhaps the girls should be steering clear from u instead
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Anonymous#12w
it’s so crazy you’d sooner blame the woman than the MEN who are being creepy
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AnonymousOP2w
It’s what you’re saying and ur bf understands too so maybe u should steer away from him. Thoughts?
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Anonymous#22w
The WOMEN is the one cheating tf?
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Anonymous#12w
ah yes bc being groped = cheating. misogynistic ahh dude
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Anonymous#12w
she literally isn’t? being unconsensually touched isn’t cheating
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AnonymousOP2w
If you call that being groped, why don’t you stop going? You have the power to stop going yk?
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Anonymous#22w
And what do you think her bf is supposed to react with when she tells him a guy touched me? He’s not thinking abt this nonsense ur chatting abt, he’s thinking cheating
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Anonymous#12w
so i have to stop having fun with my friends in MY COLLEGE TOWN because of creepy men who should be staying home instead…?
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Anonymous#12w
umm hes supposed to ask if she’s okay? like a decent person? BC SHE WAS UNCONSENSUALLY TOUCHED?
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Anonymous#12w
and men have the power to stop doing that! why should women be responsible for the bad behavior of men?
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Anonymous#22w
i feel atp he’s trolling bc there’s just no way someone could be this ignorant
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AnonymousOP2w
i really hope so but there are a lot of guys that genuinely feel this way 😭
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Anonymous#22w
insanely disturbing
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Anonymous#22w
That’s what you’d think. He’s thinking she’s trying to make him jealous by that msg; maybe she should’ve provided more context to him for me to agree with you
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Anonymous#12w
you’re projecting so hard oh my god
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AnonymousOP2w
Insanely disturbing how you think you’re in the right too
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Anonymous#22w
Not really, I’m just telling you how he sees things because I clearly understand and you don’t
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Anonymous#12w
for my own peace of mind you’re ragebaiting bc there’s no way you’re actually this stupid
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Anonymous#22w
exactly why i gave up
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AnonymousOP2w
and men wonder why they’re lonely when they act like this
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Anonymous#22w
And women wonder why they’re always clueless when it comes to men