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If my son wanted to wear a dress, I would not care. If my daughter wanted to wear boy clothes I would not care. Kids don’t know the difference You’re the one making a big deal. You cant say you love your kids when you won’t accept them for who they are.
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Anonymous 3w

If they feel right being a guy or girl, let them. If you don’t let them be who they truly are, you’re going to kill them

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Anonymous 3w

“Don’t sexualize a boy by letting him wear a dress” So dresses are…sexual???

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Anonymous 3w

If my kid turns 10 and starts blabbering about genders before algebra I think i might have to chance something. Not to say that it’s 100% wrong

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Anonymous 3w

Luckily you don’t have kids so you have nothing to worry about

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Weirdo. So if your son realized he was actually a girl…?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

This! Kids need room to express themselves and find themselves. Putting in their heads that they have to be a certain way kills their character and personality.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

And can lead to them being severally depressed

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Yep and cause ED, anxiety, low self esteem and confidence. Like a 3 year old doesn’t know a dress is for girl they just see colors and like the way it looks. Same for shoes they just see light up colors and tv characters.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

You called me a weirdo, but you wrote a whole monologue acting like you’re the universal spokesperson for parenting. The irony is wild. You don’t even have kids, yet you’re lecturing everyone else about how to raise theirs like you’re Mother Teresa of YikYak. That’s not compassion, that’s straight up narcissism, you’re a 🤡

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Sorry I’m not op??

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

So you’re only going to love your child as long as they fit your standards but the minute they don’t fit your standards what are you going to do? Are you going to beat them? Are you going to kick them out? You’re going to treat them like shit and then when the holidays come around they don’t come see your ass. You’re going to be mad right? You’re going to tell all your friends that they don’t call you and they don’t talk to you. They don’t tell you they love you yeah cause you’re pos.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

A

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

At what age do children realize their gender?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Literally any age hello

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

At what age do parents realize they can’t force a child to fit their standards?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

4-5 is gender stability when they can dictate what gender is. You people are literal idiots

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Dude gender is fluid hello. It’s been proven time and time again

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Parents are entitled to their own decisions based on societal expectations and beliefs, just because you want to be queer does not entitle the rest of society to bend the knee to your views and beliefs.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Ok?? And where did we say that’ll be the case? Allowing a child more freedom to express themselves isn’t being queer

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

You’re going to love your child no matter what, if the child wants to wear a dress or play with dolls that’s perfectly fine, there’s no shunning in that, but pushing this rhetoric about sexuality on children is weird and disgusting, you’re literally shunning parents for wanting to get a grip on disorder by explaining gender identity and steering their children towards societal norms by dictating what has been for millennial to some new cultural dystopia and then get mad and throw a fit

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Your parents must have never let you express your self

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

So you’re saying if they don’t fit society standard they’re not normal? So not only do your kids have to live up to your expectations they have to live up to society standards as well. Like society gives a shit they’re going to bully that child regardless. So not only do they have to deal with society they have to deal with you. So this child has no freedom of choice and no protection whatsoever. Yeah the therapist really about to make bank and it’ll be your fault

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Not every disagreement is society oppressing your imaginary family, judging by your rhetoric you’re in your early 20s, have no idea what raising a child is like let alone the mental strain that suppresses your own individual self. You entertain such things because of your own individual views when society alone has been the only reason to individual expression.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

You wrote a whole paragraph arguing with a scenario that only exists in your head. The mental gymnastics you’re doing should qualify as cardio. You’re accusing parents of being controlling while dictating how everyone ELSE should raise kids you don’t even have. That’s textbook narcissist behavior.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

You’re the one who said that a child needs to fit your standards. That sums up what said like you’re a narcissist and pathetic. Don’t have kids pls if you do I feel bad for them.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Oh okay, I’m going to feed my 12 year old estrogen so he can grow a pair of breast because sensitive queers like you want to advocate against what I think is best in my child’s interest, you people are insufferable

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

100% right, people who think it’s normal to let kids make life changing decisions and turn into a whole other sex because of interest is just weird and having an entire movement backing that is even weirder

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Correct, that was directed at OP

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Anonymous 3w

Freedom? The child lives under my roof, I clothe, feed and support, I cook, clean and provide. What freedom does the child have when I am the sole source of its existence. There is no freedom in my house hold, this isn’t a democracy, children are sole responsibilities of parents, the institutional law has been such, to raise an upstanding citizen and abide by social law.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Yeah don’t have kids at all I mean ever. And when your kids run away don’t act surprise. When they change at school don’t act surprise. When they disobey you and become sneaky don’t act surprise. When they don’t tell you anything don’t act surprise okay. You created that system and that system is going to crash and burn.

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Anonymous 3w

Once the system pushed both parents into full-time workers, handed the kids to institutions, erased class standards, and normalized anything under the banner of “progress,” society stopped raising families and started manufacturing mindsets. “SLAVERY” is your entire well being, it’s the reason you were manufactured in the first place.

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Anonymous 3w

since when do we let children make the logical decisions for a life changing operations, dude turn 18 or 21. We cant even drink before then so what gives a kid the full logic to believe in that and to even believe it bruh.

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Anonymous 3w

America isn’t a democracy, it’s a constitutional federal republic. 2 completely different things and quiet frankly the reason many of you are blind sheep

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

If my kid is 12 and is debating what they think they are then they arent getting enough homework 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

I would rather trust my child at a drag show then in your hands. I don’t see drag queens or queer ppl running around shoving their beliefs down ppls throats. Only ppl I’ve seen do that is Christian’s and ppl like you who can’t grasp the concept of children having freedom of choice and expression.

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