i’m a man and the reason my wife cooks more is just because her food is so good and i’m obsessed with it. my specialty is more in baking desserts. i do help her with prep work for her cooking when she needs it cause i love cooking together with her. but yea she’s more the one that cooks not cause of gender roles but because she’s a really good cook. and im a really good baker. so it balances out
In a normal relationship, the man and woman share responsibilities equally which includes cooking, cleaning and providing. A man shouldn’t just sit back and relax while the woman does housework just because he provides financial stability. And a woman doesn’t have to want to cook for the man. If the man is hungry, he should learn how to cook. Many women today are providing for the family as well as doing housework while the men just sit back and relax like they’re the king of the house.
i said generally, chefs are inherently an exception. never said i was against doing household chores, and a gender pay gap existing (although i agree it shouldn’t) doesn’t change my point if anything it emphasizes it. makes sence that men were depended on to provide historically. which means it also make sense why women, who were always home, took care of the home. it just makes sense.
A lot of things were historically done that don’t happen anymore because times have changed like what ur while argument is because it was done historically it should be done that which is bs. Slavery also existed historically for a long time that doesn’t mean it was good or that we should bring it back
omg twinning i’m a trans guy too with a wife! me and her are both trans actually so we swapped a lot of clothes earlier into our relationship (things that would fit each other anyway, she’s like a foot taller than me and buff and i’m a short twink but there were quite a few things we could still trade)
Stop forcing your views on other people. Just because you wouldn’t tolerate the same kind of relationship as someone else doesn’t mean you should tell them “the right way to be in a relationship”. Not defending/attacking anyone’s particular situation, it’s just every couples version of 50/50 may be different to you. Not everyone’s needs are the same as yours