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Aita? My boyfriend and I are going on a trip in a few weeks that I’m paying for. I’m paying for the hotel, plane tickets, most outings. I just found out that on this trip he’s proposing. Is it terrible that I’m mad he’s proposing on a trip I paid for?
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Anonymous 1d

is he the gf wth 😭😭 why are you paying for most of this

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Anonymous 1d

He sees you as a wife! The economy is hard and he couldn’t afford it. Just breathe. The 2 of you will be forever partners! It’s hard out here. Stick with your love because there aren’t many good folks out. Learn to share finances. That man will become great and reward you tenfold of that trip and more. I’m rooting for yal. Look at this from a different perspective!

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Anonymous 1d

If you’re happy together then this is just a little bit of nothing. Don’t sweat the small stuff. You’re happy about the trip, happy about the proposal.

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Anonymous 1d

him buying the ring is the reason he couldn’t pay for the trip

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Anonymous 1d

Yeah I think it’s crazy that you’re mad about that

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

The trip is probably 5x more expensive than the ring.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Well I was fine paying for it as like a gift, until I found out he’s proposing on the trip. I don’t wanna pay for my own proposal

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

oo yeah that makes sense

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Not many men or women, want marriage these days! Especially as one gets older, they werent lying about how much harder it gets. Love from everyone’s heart, fade, as you get older, and go through heartbreak after heartbreak! At that point, folks get together all because of “aging/getting older” and financial support/security

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