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I hang out with this guy sometimes and he knows I’m a virgin. He never brings up sex at all and never has initiated it. Is that a bad thing like I’m confused. Cause most guys I’ve hung out with in the past have always brought up sex and tried
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Anonymous 4w

he is just being respectful, lovely. probably waiting for you to give him the green light. it’s not a bad idea to try and mention or initiate something as long as he’s comfortable too. if you’re content with how you guys are then there’s no need. you don’t have to do anything at all.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Okay that’s good to hear. I just didn’t know if maybe it’s bad that nothing is happening and maybe he won’t want to hang out anymore

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

it should be common practice for someone to not force you into sex. you have gotten yourself someone with self control. take your time and do what you think is right. you don’t need to touch him to make him stay.

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