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Confessions 13w
I’ve only narrowly dodged being an incel; I don’t blame women for not wanting me but I blame my home environment/dysfunctional fam for raising me to be unwantable. I’ve missed so many milestones i just hope I hit the next one hard enough to crack my skull
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Anonymous 13w

As long as you’re actually wanting to change and work on yourself it’ll show and make you more desireable. 👍🏻 -someone who was with a man like that for 5 years waiting for him to implement the change he always talked about and finally left because all he did was play the blame game the entire time

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Anonymous 13w

much of your 20s is just undoing the mistakes of your family. i’m sorry friend but you’ll meet someone that appreciates all the work you’ve put in yourself.

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Anonymous 13w

Boo hoo. Your home raised you to be unwantable!!! 😭 Take some fking accountability

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Anonymous 13w

As long as you really believe no one will want you, you will manifest it. It starts with you. People blaming their parents are ridiculous. People a lot worse off get women routinely.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 13w

😂😂 take a nap bro

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 13w

Yeah, and they mistreat them. They get tolerated at best

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 13w

people use law of attraction to blame victims of sa. you only get sa’d if it matched your frequency and you attracted it. self fulfilling prophesy is what it actually is. you have to believe you’re desirable or you’re not going to act in a way that’s going to lead you to be desirable. there’s no such thing as manifestation and ts is harmful

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 13w

Oh you best belief I’m gonna manically manifest my just desserts, because if it works and the only thing holding me back has been me and not a cycle of addiction and abuse I’m GOING to hurt somebody

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

believing in yourself is important but don’t let anyone downplay the impact your family has in literally wiring the way your brain works. it takes a lot of conscious effort to undo that wiring. my parent were my first abusers and it led to a pattern that i have to break. it’s not my fault but it’s my responsibility

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