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I had this toxic friend that I cut off a couple years ago. She was scoping out my linked in so I emailed her just airing out how I felt about how things went down. She replied basically calling me evil but all I did was wish her well. AITA?
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Anonymous 15w

There’s a LOT of missing context

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

Okay so basically I cut her off because she would say mean stuff to me and always made situations about her (including my 21st birthday) and sometimes I would lash out and quit being friends with her for my mental health but eventually feel bad and apologize. But that part of my life is over and I was trying to extend an olive branch and include her in my life again. Here are the emails for context

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

NAH she doesnt seem pissed or anything, just listen to her “dont contact again” and leave it alone

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15w

Yeah I had sent another email saying I respected that and wished her well. No one in my friend groups liked her and so I just left it at that. We were friends for 8 years so it was a hard thing to let go but honestly this kind of gave me the reassurance/closure I needed I just wasn’t sure if I was wrong for contacting her in the first place

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

no youre fine for contacting imo

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

UR VALID

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