Anonymous #1 10w

I think the guy im dating is exclusive but I lowkey don’t think I am😭

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Anonymous OP 10w

Definitely sounds like a conversation about it is needed then, it’ll do a lot less damage to get that straightened out before he assumes y’all are gf/bf and not just dating. I told a guy I was just looking for something casual and after the date he said “so you’re my girlfriend now right?” And I had to repeatedly tell him for months I wasnt looking for commitment. Better for u to set expectations instead of accidentally finding urself in a new relationship u weren’t sure about. I wish u luck!

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Anonymous #1 10w

Thanks I really appreciate it 🙏 you the goat

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Anonymous #1 10w

Okay so what’s the difference between dating and being bf and gf?

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Anonymous #2 10w

I can go on a date with a complete stranger and slowly get to know them over time but those first dates I wouldn’t consider them my bf/gf because they’re still someone I know virtually nothing about except surface level stuff. Personally I need to figure out how comfortable I am around a person before I start slapping labels on it. Some people prefer casual dates for fun and others are looking for a future spouse. Always better to talk about being a couple before assuming.

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