That’s you tho some people can make light of it, yeah in the moment my bpd make me want to skin mfs for being dumb in my presence and cry because of the overwhelming pressure to be in control when im not but after the fact I can see wow I was tripping and make a joke about how it’s whipping my ass but I’m fighting back, I’m not winning but I’m fighting back.
Making a joke about something is one thing Exploiting societies current obsession with needing to label everything is another and that’s what OP is talking about Plenty of people out there make their entire personalities around their self-diagnosed mental disorder and it’s just weird