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hey yall i just wanna vent 20F. i’m lowkey scared of sex ive been abstinent for 4 months now like i fr get flashbacks of the pain and it just always felt so violent. does any other girl relate? idk if i will have sex for a longggg time now 💀
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Anonymous 10w

real asf, i haven’t had sex in 2 years and i got fingered this weekend, my coochie was bleeding for two days 😪

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Anonymous 10w

Sounds like the ex only knew one speed and drilled you every time

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Anonymous 10w

For real. Do guys not know how to take it slow and build it up. How to make it more than just going through the movements? There’s so much to it. You can be hot and dominant while being gentle

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Anonymous 10w

I haven’t had sex in close to 3 years and I actually didn’t go to the gyno for 2 either (oopsie) so the only entry I’ve had was tampons and even those (the supers) felt uncomfy but then I had my first Pap smear in years and I’ve never felt any pain at all with the speculum before but this time OH MY GOD it hurt so bad I screamed out in pain so now I’m really afraid I have vaginismus :(

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

Damn was his nails smooth

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

yeah ngl he always made it painful af

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

fr and ngl when i finger myself now it hurts so i just don’t😭idk if ill have sex again cause wtf

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