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I’m having to put a friendship on pause because he caught feelings for me and I can’t really be friendly or authentic with him because he interprets it as flirting. I honestly feel ill right now (PLEASE DONT FUCKING DM ME TO TRY AND GET IN MY PANTS 😡)
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Anonymous 10w

Also, I’m a man, so maybe that will discourage people even more. But this has happened too many times before, and it makes me want to just make friends with people who can’t be attracted to me. I established immediately that I just wanted to be friends because queer male friendships in the past usually end in the other guy catching feelings, him proposing a hookup, or us hooking up. I’m burnt out on this

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Mind if I ask your orientation?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

I’m bi

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