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is your 20s supposed to be lonely or am i just a fucking loser with no friends lol
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Anonymous 11w

Life isn’t supposed to be any type of way. It’s just the result of our environment and conditions and what we do with it.

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Anonymous 11w

It’s only the most normal thing in the world

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Anonymous 11w

You need to make a new effort in your 20’s to find new friends. After school, people tend to go their own way and form new friendships based on work and then eventually based on their kids’ social lives. Where you move also plays a big part. Every time you go into a new life phase, you tend to shed all of your acquaintances, hold onto 1-2 real friends, and make new acquaintances and 1-2 real friends - rinse and repeat.

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Anonymous 11w

It's normal for it to be lonely. Same with your teens

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Anonymous 11w

It can be both

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Anonymous 11w

I’m in the same boat if it helps lol

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Anonymous 11w

Kinda

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