Yes, lettuce is terrible. He is just over five years older than you. Best case scenario he was a senior when you were a freshman, which is already suspicious as fuck. The more likely scenario he was a senior when you were in eighth grade. Not only does this go outside of the Romeo and Juliet clause, it’s also just totally immoral on his part. If y’all met after you turned 18 that would be a different story. At least then it would be legal.