Ugh, we just relocated to Texas 5 months ago. I don’t know anyone around here 😂 I have a 16 hour drive back home to my family but I need to get some money together first. We had this whole house wife situation happening but now that I’m thinking about it… I don’t have my own anything but this car I bought before we moved.
That’s the closest to me is 16 hours away, he moved out here because of his job and then we were going to move to AZ in a year so I didn’t really try to make friends. My mom can’t help me cause she’s currently in rehab (for her body, she had a massive stroke) and my dad died 5 years ago 😭
The worse thing ive ever been through. I probably shouldn’t have had the video playing on the TV when he walked through the door but watching the color drain from his face, definitely made me feel better but he got extremely aggressive towards me, he didn’t like hit me but he pushed me to the floor and the tv. Apparently I’m ungrateful, all I have to do is stay home and be happy so his extracurricular activities is none of my business LOL I’m going to pawn our engagement ring tomorrow
He said that he’d end my life if I exposed him or if I ever tell anyone about this then tried to gaslight me about the situation, saying that he wanted to spicy of the relationship. Okay? Sooo? Like when I offered a 3sum, he acted like it was the worst thing in the world. He cracked my phone screen and I had to change my number because he kept blowing my phone up. I’ve been staying at a days inn bc I pawned his ring but idk what’s next
He hasn’t called me since I changed my number this morning but he’s been calling my mom’s phone all day, she had to get one of the nurses to help block him. I am about to figure out how to make it back to my home state, I do have all the messages though. He thinks I’m going to tell his parents but I’m not going to out him. He’s literally my first and only love.. LOL wild. But I guess I’ve been in a financially abusive and emotional abusive relationship all this time cause I just realized
Okay, that’s further evidence for the restraining order. I’m really sorry this has happened to you, it fucking sucks. You can still love him without wanting anything to do with him. I respect you not wanting to out him to his parents. First things first though, protect yourself, get the restraining order and make sure you really enforce the no contact. No calling your mom, or friends to get to you. Stay safe 💜