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Warm take: you’re allowed to say you only want to be with someone who’s a virgin, on the condition that you’re a virgin. Otherwise stfu.
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Anonymous 15w

Literally this!!!

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Anonymous 15w

But it’s ok for someone who is a virgin to want someone who isn’t?

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Anonymous 15w

As a virgin, idrc

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Anonymous 15w

Nah. Disagree.

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Anonymous 15w

Im a virgin and want a virgin im 20M

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15w

Airball

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 15w

Totally, what if someone wants someone who knows what they're doing since they're unsure/scared??

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15w

“You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take” - Wayne Gretzky

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 15w

I should think so, because that’s based on you wanting assurance/guidance/experience, not being judgy of people who are or are not virgins. The wanting a virgin thing if you’re not one is just a creepy (usually misogynistic) double standard

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

That’s so interesting and super valid! That said, speaking just for myself as a lady who’s a virgin, for me when a gentleman says this…it’s actually kind of a red flag. In my experience, guys who emphasize this kind of thing sometimes (not always!) end up having views that lean a little into misogynistic territory. I’m sure there are kind and respectful men out there who feel this way! But for me personally, the risk of running into someone who follows Tate-type thinking is just too high. 🥲

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

To be clear, this is just for gentlemen ‘seeking out’ virgins like, specifically. I know I’m going to get clack for this, and that’s okay. 😭🤘

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 15w

-Michael Scott

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 15w

With which part?

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