Yeah, unless you don’t mind not having them in your life anymore, I’d just walk away from this one.
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Anonymous17h
How did you break the ice??? I mean losing a friend sucks but I’m just not sure if it’s not worth taking that leap of faith, I’m sure people have this work out all the time
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Anonymous17h
id say probably wait until there’s no forced proximity
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Anonymous16h
I appreciate everybody’s opinion, and it really does hurt to see how you all have been hurt. Thank you all
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Anonymous#117h
And what don’t ask them out or anything??? I’ve always wanted to get to know someone really well first before even considering it and I’m at that point
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AnonymousOP17h
It ruined my friendships bc they can never get past as seeing you as a close friend it’ll make things awkward (in my experience)
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Anonymous#117h
Oh I see… i appreciate your input, and that really sucks. This is just like a almost dream come true but gosh I mean you are right
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AnonymousOP17h
Yea that’s how I felt till I broke the ice in that way and got told “you always been a friend a great one, there’s no seeing past that”
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AnonymousOP17h
The leap of faith lands you in a pit of spikes and despair. Don’t do it.
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Anonymous#317h
Could you elaborate more?
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AnonymousOP17h
You guys are hanging in a group all the time? Wait until that slows down
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Anonymous#317h
Yes it’s apart of a group, however I mean I feel like that’s slowed down a lot and I’ve spent a lot more 1 on 1 time with her especially last 2 weeks