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Guys what’s the plan when you have a crush on one of your female friends and you literally are their closest person and know and do so much with them.
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Anonymous 17h

Keep it cool

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Anonymous 17h

Yeah, unless you don’t mind not having them in your life anymore, I’d just walk away from this one.

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Anonymous 17h

How did you break the ice??? I mean losing a friend sucks but I’m just not sure if it’s not worth taking that leap of faith, I’m sure people have this work out all the time

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Anonymous 17h

id say probably wait until there’s no forced proximity

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Anonymous 16h

I appreciate everybody’s opinion, and it really does hurt to see how you all have been hurt. Thank you all

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17h

And what don’t ask them out or anything??? I’ve always wanted to get to know someone really well first before even considering it and I’m at that point

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

It ruined my friendships bc they can never get past as seeing you as a close friend it’ll make things awkward (in my experience)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17h

Oh I see… i appreciate your input, and that really sucks. This is just like a almost dream come true but gosh I mean you are right

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

Yea that’s how I felt till I broke the ice in that way and got told “you always been a friend a great one, there’s no seeing past that”

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

The leap of faith lands you in a pit of spikes and despair. Don’t do it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 17h

Could you elaborate more?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

You guys are hanging in a group all the time? Wait until that slows down

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 17h

Yes it’s apart of a group, however I mean I feel like that’s slowed down a lot and I’ve spent a lot more 1 on 1 time with her especially last 2 weeks

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