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Idc how qualified & talented he is, I refuse to have a man be my obgyn or do ant other service that involves my vagina I understand that some women are okay with it & the guys went to school for it but this is my stance for me personally
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Anonymous 13w

what r these comments😭

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Anonymous 13w

For those who’re offended by this for some reason, ppl have a right to choose who they want their doctor to be (as long as their within their network). It is 100% a personal decision which only concerns that particular patient

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Anonymous 13w

Yea that’s a fact. Imma look at a man funny if that’s what he decides to go to school for

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Anonymous 13w

I felt this way until my I had one as my gynecological surgeon. He’s been doing trauma informed care since the 90s and he’s fantastic. He’s the most personable and funny medical professional I’ve ever seen. I’m switching to him as my primary gyno from my last one

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Anonymous 13w

I totally agree and stand by this after I had a HORRIBLE male gyno. Literally the only fucking thing he cared about was preserving my fertility rather than my actual health, wellbeing, and choices. Pissed me the fuck off.

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Anonymous 13w

lowkey same with therapists. i do not want a male therapist tbh

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Anonymous 13w

I wish i could be a gynecologist but like for men

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Anonymous 13w

what about if they’re the most qualified OBGYN in your state / area

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

As stated in my post, idc if a man is the best im just not gonna proceed if it’s a man

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

I refuse medical services in general. Check mate.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 13w

Agreed, people have the right to choose. It’s the blatant sexism that’s the issue. It’s exactly the same as if some man said “I’d never let a woman doctor perform a prostate exam”. The preference is fine and acceptable. Sexism is not.

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 13w

Remember the family guy episode where Stewie would rather die than let a black doctor treat him? Lol

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 13w

He completely neglected to see me when I was having a miscarriage because he didn’t think it was happening and never once followed up or let me set any appointment to be seen or helped for over a week. Had to go to the emergency room for blood loss ✌️

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

they aren’t concerned about qualifications here

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 13w

well they’re wrong but i don’t wanna hurt her feelings again. she’s gonna go cry some more

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 13w

There is a half equivalent almost I think. Like a urologist type deal but for men I think???

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 13w

Cool cool I wanna touch some balls

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

Having a preference doesn’t make someone wrong lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 13w

that’s not a preference but ok lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 13w

exclusion and preference are two different things

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

And how can you tell by a max 120 word post lmao, I’d never go to a male obgyn either cuz that’s my PREFERENCE

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

I PREFER to have a female treat me for that shit

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

When it comes to having someone stick their fingers in my vagina, yes it’s a preference to have it be a woman. Normal doctors I don’t have a preference but when it’s about my vulva, it’s gonna be a woman.

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 13w

Facts, doctor or not someone who isn’t my man or in a rare case my mom (long story) ain’t no one seeing or touching me there

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 13w

girl you obviously don’t know what preference is but ok

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 13w

if you would never let a man treat you for that, then that’s not preference, that’s exclusion. it makes no sense to say you prefer a woman doctor over a male if you would never have a male doctor. learn your words honey.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

It seems like you don’t actually, but pop off sis and keep telling me what I do and don’t know🤗

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 13w

ok that’s YOUR preference but not OP or number 20

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

Can you not read? I said for that specifically not make doctors in general babe

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 13w

i sure will bc it says that you don’t know a lot 😀

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

Know more than you honey😘

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

Preference is something you choose over something else. But if I’m in the er and bleeding out and the only gyno dr available is a man, I’ll take him. True story btw. And he fucked shit up so badly my bf had to step in and say we weren’t leaving until he gave me proper medical care.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

But if telling yourself this will help you sleep at night then go for it babes

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 13w

girl i don’t got time for this im watching tv. you respondent for a comment i made 12 hours ago. you have a nice night.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

And you answered so you must have time😘

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 13w

Also the male gyno in the er that saw me fucked the shit up too and I should have made a malpractice suit on both of them.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

No one is making you reply

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 13w

oh period queen pop off girl boss slay honey

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 13w

i asked a simple question and yalll been attacking me all day smh

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 13w

god forbid someone has a question

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

It’s clearly not about the question is about everything after that, besides it was already clarified in the main post

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

Oh yes, god forbid someone has a question that was already answered before they even asked said question :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

Actually you said “ok well when you catch a disease and no woman obgyn can help you I hope you suffer in peace 🩷🩷🩷”

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

I love when people omit things or lie to make themselves look good😍

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 13w

ok and she answered my question. boom. so idk why it’s a big deal and why i been attacked constantly

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

i sure did say that. bc i wasn’t here for the discrimination

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

Maybe don’t start the attack??? Ever think about that, wait don’t actually answer cuz we already know

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

Discrimination where babe?🧐

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 13w

i didn’t start the attack but ok lmao. everyone’s entitled to their opinion and i had mine and yall jumped down my throat

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

Deadass no one jumped down your throat unless you did first, but pop off sis if that’s gonna let you sleep at night

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 13w

i alr explained how it’s discrimination. she or someone else decided to use my comment and talked about the male loneliness epidemic and how it’s my fault. all i said was idk why it’s such a big deal when the dude is just trying to do their job. god forbid someone does their job.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

And kudos for them doing their job, but not for me if there’s any other choice

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

dude why are you this much of a bitch about male obgyns 😭😭😭 why does it press you that hard

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 13w

patients should be able to choose what kind of doctor they see without being called a bitch

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 13w

I am agreeing with you. It’s bitchmade to give a shit abt what doctor someone chooses for THEIR health

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 13w

Wait so rejecting medical service because someone is black is racist but rejecting medical service because someone is a man is… yas queen?

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 13w

You can’t switch specific elements then say how come if we maintain the same context it suddenly is viewed as different when the element that you are changing is quite literally what defines the context. Men are attracted to women and are a constant threat to them that they must be aware of There is nothing biologically different in the driving nature of a black woman compared to a white woman that would incline her towards taking advantage of a patient

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 13w

it doesn’t press me hard? you guys are the one attacking me?

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 13w

“Men are a constant threat to women” That’s the same logic that racists use against black people “Blacks are a constant threat to whites” If you actually believe that men are a universal threat to women, I’m sorry and honestly I’m baffled that you confidently say such a bigoted statement wholeheartedly believing it to be true. Best of luck to you; again, I refuse medical doctors regardless of race or gender, and everyone is entitled to refuse treatment for any reason or no reason at all. Cya

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 13w

The statement that men are a threat to women…. generalizes all men as threats, portraying male attraction as inherently dangerous, which unfairly vilifies an entire group based on gender. It’s misandristic.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

You literally entered the convo bashing some woman for preferring fem obgyns over men. Stop pretending you’re a victim lol, you don’t have any say in their medical decisions

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 13w

Rejecting someone because they are black is racist, like you stated. However no one replied to my post saying Yas queen. Again I feel like a lot of people are leaving out the fact I said this is my personal preference, I do not feel comfortable with a man having access to my vagina. In any other aspects of medicine I am fine with a man. I do not care what race any of my doctors are because race plays no role.

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 13w

i asked a simple question lol and yall attacked me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

You are such a victim LOL. You know exactly what you were doing. You saying shit like “they’re wrong but I won’t argue, they’ll just go cry again” is inflammatory and garnered you the exact reaction you were owed. Men on the internet amirite

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 13w

This isn’t “men on the internet” this is just a random dude(presumably) annoying you Imagine if I said “women on the internet ami right” Whenever some woman had a bad take on something and it bothered me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

I don’t want anyone having access to my genitals even if it means I die of ball cancer xD

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 13w

Ok? That’d be a painful way to die, but no one else can make you get your privates checked ig

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

A man saying “learn your words honey” is literally them posting a sign saying I LOVE CHILDREN I AM A PEDOPHILE 😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 13w

bro what??

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 13w

what did i say that gives pedo

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 13w

Huh?? That came outta left field. That phrase is often patronizing, but that’s got nothing to do with pedophilia

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 13w

Are you alright?

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