Confessions on Yik Yak | Craziest part about growing up was realizing that my mom wasn't a victim, she was a master manipulator & actually just as bad as my dad. My whole childhood she controlled the narrative but I’m realizing tht most of my trauma actually comes from her

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Craziest part about growing up was realizing that my mom wasn't a victim, she was a master manipulator & actually just as bad as my dad. My whole childhood she controlled the narrative but I’m realizing tht most of my trauma actually comes from her

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Anonymous 13w

ARE YOU ME??????

Anonymous 13w

Unbelievably relatable. Mine is also very good at making me think IM the evil manipulative one

Anonymous 13w

both of my parents are bad. my dad was verbally abusive to everyone and physically to mom to the point she had a restraining order YET when i told them both to get a divorce growing up, they refused. they have cheated on each other, lied to each other, and have involved their kids in their manipulation.

Anonymous 13w

It’s even better when she made u think ur dad chose to leave when she forced him to

Anonymous

#1 13w

I was thinking the same thing fr

Anonymous

#3 13w

Heavy on this one 😭

Anonymous

#4 13w

It’s terrible when they put the kids in the middle. My fam did the same. It was like we were dealing with 2 teenagers breaking up in HS in a friend group

Anonymous

OP 13w

I’m glad that’s not a unique experience cause I still am doubting whether I’m actually the asshole or not😭 It’s very difficult to break out of it and figure out what’s actually REAL. I still doubt if she even gaslights me at all or if I’m just making it up for some reason.

Anonymous

#3 13w

Oh my LORD same. I think what’s best is getting a therapist. But also, ppl who gaslight and manipulate are rarely self aware and afraid that they’re the problem. I used to get worried that I was actually the narcissist until my therapist told me that a narcissist would never ever think that way.