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You’re not the one who grants forgiveness, it’s the victim who does.
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Anonymous 4w

Yep and holding on to that anger does you no good

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Anonymous 4w

Not trye

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I don’t hold onto that anger. I just give back what they did to me if you’re concerned

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Revenge is slippery slope. But I get it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I’m not actively planning on it it just happens 🤷 hehehe

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Cope

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

But like what if im the victim

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

And the perpetrator

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Perplexed now huh!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Are you dumb? You still don’t forgive yourself if you’re a perpetrator and forgiveness depends on who you have wronged either way. Also if you think you’re a victim it could just be your victim mentality so be clear on it😜

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Okay so let me slow this down for Mrs. Smooth Brain over here! I am the perpetrator and the victim of my own perpetration. So in this way I must forgive myself. Ha!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Ya exactly. Forgive yourself and don’t fall into the same dumb pattern😗

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