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i hate not being a basic pretty white girl. i believe i am very beautiful, but i am also ethnically ambiguous (I’m mixed), and in this world, i just feel like i’ll never win because I’m not the standard.
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Anonymous 1d

mm i get you girl but based on your description there are places even in this country where you are exactly the standard

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Anonymous 1d

You are in fact the standard

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Anonymous 1d

I live in the Midwest but I am not Anglo Saxon/Nordic white, so many in my area don’t think I am attractive. I am Slavic so my features are unusual where I live

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Anonymous 1d

who gives af what the world thinks or anyone! live for YOU & you’ll feel true peace & joy

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Anonymous 1d

Buddy you’re a girl, you’re wanted

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Anonymous 1d

I’m a basic pretty white girl and people fucking hate me and make sure I know it. Apparently I have some privilege… which means nothing to me because I don’t care about being the beauty standard or systemic benefits. I’d trade them all in if I can just have community that doesn’t hate my fucking guts. You don’t know how lucky you are.

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Anonymous 1d

What do you mean the standard? White girls globally are def the minority. Western media might have you thinking otherwise but this is a VERY American take.

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Anonymous 1d

maybe ur just ugly

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

i don’t feel i’m treated like it tho

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

maybe being in the midwest is the problem. i feel so different.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

oh girl pls that’s exactly the issue you gotta get outta 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

i’m moving to california for school, maybe that will be better 🤞

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

It doesn’t believe me

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

yikes

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

A third of the people here are white and everybody else is rich and racist

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

If ur from the Midwest how can you afford California? I moved to Colorado for school and couldn't afford it. Had to move back to this shit hope

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1d

well obviously i’m talking about in regards to the united states, where i live, or more specifically my community.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1d

It’s like a third of the people in northern cali

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Anonymous 1d

It’s not more than any other race so it’s one of the big ones

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

don’t listen- the pivotal difference is seeking out spaces with people of color and getting tf out of primarily white spaces

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Anonymous 1d

Hold on, why did your mind immediately go to low income housing for people of color when they said seek spaces for people of color. They meant like clubs and activities.

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Anonymous 1d

i wasn’t talking to you

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Anonymous 1d

Yeah but OP is talking about cali for school so assumption is they’d be living on campus not off campus housing and apartments. And #1 comment to OP had nothing to do with housing.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1d

Dude I don’t think there’s a huge discernible difference no offense

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Anonymous 1d

Yes but let’s not forget we don’t know where in the Midwest OP is, and for example Chicago there’s a lot of prosperous black Neighborhoods

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

yeah wtf i’m actually so fried i said spaces with people of color and they said poverty 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

100% maybe OP should move to spaces with no white people if that's her vibe. Cali probably isn't it though. Theres more white people there than the Midwest. (Source I unfortunately live here)

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Anonymous 1d

Idk if you are being sarcastic as if there aren’t but directly you have Roger’s park, Ravenswood, Uptown, Andersonville, Edgewater, Lincoln Park. Outside the city near Chicago heights, Beverly, Evergreen Park, Merrionette Park, certain areas of Maywood and Bellwood predominately black neighborhoods with home ownership. Don’t listen to the 24hr news cycle.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Yo im not supporting #5 but like most of these places are not black in Chicago; you deadass listed Lincoln Park

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

Oh you want like pilsen, Bridgeport, englewood, Hyde park. Living in Lincoln Park, I live next to mostly black people that might be anecdotal but I do. Also the outside neighborhoods I gave are mostly black.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Lincoln park is one of the richest neighborhoods in the city and yeah still really white I deadass don’t think yk the city

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

I wasn't being sarcastic I genuinely wanted to learn...😔

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

It is not, Gold Coast and River North are

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

I just looked this up cause I thought I had to be confused for a second: It’s genuinely 2-3% black with an average income of $113,00. I think you need to really explore our city and get outside of your bubble

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

I just wanted to learn but yall are downvoting me and punishing me for trying to be apart of the discussion. I meant no hostilities I just wanted to learn

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

Dumb question #7 but does Chicago have transit like New York? Like subways and stuff rather than just buses

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1d

Yeah but it’s mostly elevated trains that’s why they call it the L

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

Well good thing I have, I most of my time traveling for health care in Bellwood and Maywood, Beverly etc. I’ve been fucking boots on the ground home healthcare, I know it’s predominantly black.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1d

I know not for me but yes, Chicago has some of the best public transit.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

bru how did this become chicago chat

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Alright I hope you make it back to the mansion safe

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

From #5 deleting their comments about poc communities mostly being low income areas that had nothing to do with your original responses to OP about finding people of color spaces.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

Yes because my little apartment is so fucking nice, I enjoy going home to family in Joliet fuck outta here.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Yeah you were lowkey just referencing your neighbors when I said sum about Lincoln so yk you’re probably from there but that’s cool

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Have a blessed day I hope you help those people🙏

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

Yes I said I live near mostly black people in Lincoln although anecdotal it’s my experience. I also hail from a not rich city in Illinois who wants to admit they are from Joliet. But you be easy tho.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

You said you live near RICH black people in a RICH neighborhood. I don’t know a single mf growing up who would care more if I was from mf Uganda than if I was living in Lincoln. Idgaf you “hail from a not rich city” you have money that’s fine but don’t act you’re something you’re not

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

You don’t have to be rich to live in that neighbor, I am not rich. Im finishing grad school at DePaul. There are affluent parts and average parts in every neighborhood. Someone having a high rise on the Mag Mile or River North is wealthy. Frankly owning a home in the city is rich albeit stupid to me because I’d be damned if I didn’t have a backyard and that’s the case for most neighborhoods.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

DePaul? Depaul is a private school that's WAY more expensive than my previous (VERY expensive Ivy like school)

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1d

On scholarship and on loans bro, I’m not paying for this shit outta pocket; I wouldn’t be able to afford it and the bit I do pay is killing me. I’ll be paying back loans for like 20 yrs, not ashamed to say.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Damn...

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1d

Yeah like just because someone can go somewhere or live somewhere doesn’t make them well off. . . Northwestern maybe we can say that for them cause fuck them.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

I mean kinda? Like it's clear you're being supported or at least living and going to school in a place I could literally never afford. Unless we are the same income and you are just going to a fancy school in a expensive area for some reason and going broke

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1d

Like you?

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Anonymous 1d

it’s never that serious. i had a thought, it’s not about gaining something. thanks!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1d

Not true I’m sorry I disagree. White is mostly the standard

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 1d

What do you mean white is the standard? Where? White people are the minority globally, mixed girls are the STANDARD across the world. Or are you disagreeing with my assessment of California??

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 1d

Also just because you disagree doesn't mean you gotta downvote me lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

California will uphold you as THE beauty standard.

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 20h

I've honestly seen like several of these posts a week talking about how basic white girls are or such like that. I just dont get why we have to put other people down. Like she didn't need to word it like that despite her feelings. If you posted the inverse you would get reported and banned lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 20h

nobody is or was putting anyone down. thankkk yeww

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

I mean, how would you feel if it was worded that way about you. You must understand calling a whole race of girls basic might be a little hurtful to people who look like that?

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 20h

i wouldn’t care

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20h

I mean you kinda clearly care because you are posting about this exact thing and being upset by it...😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 20h

it was something i posted in a moment of heavy thoughts. i don’t care as much as u clearly do. i got other things to do boo

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

I mean you keep replying to every comment I make despite me not even talking to you and you're downvoting all of them and arguing so you clearly care MORE than me. You won't but okay pop off sis, whatever lets you justify putting other girls down! You said something hurtful without realizing it, it's not a big deal!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 19h

oh you’re still going

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

You literally responded to me? You started this convo? I wasn't even talking to you😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 19h

bb you’re getting blocked you’re so annoying in this comment section. baiii

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 18h

I didn’t downvote you stupid. White is the majority beauty standard across the world. I’m not saying it’s right. I’m saying that’s what it is

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