
As soon as me and my girlfriend started dating, she told me that the number of likes on her posts and people following her dropped instantly, but also the number of guys sending her flirty messages went way up. I truly donāt understand it, but I think itās just some sick fetish of weird desire to get someone to cheat on their partner with them, Iām sorry youāre having to deal with that. I find that blocking them without responding is typically the best move.
Iām not in psychology but Iām pretty sure thereās like a ālawā for something like this. Because it happens with everyone. Iām a guy and when I was dating someone, the girls and guys wanted to show interest. Where were you when I was single? Same thing happens with a job, the moment you get one, all the other jobs start calling you back.
In all truth, psychologically speaking, we are never truly fulfilled by what we have. This is called greed or avarice and it applies to relationships more than you may believe. As soon as other people catch wind of how you might be taken, at the least their desire to know more might rise. That being said, it does not affect everyone but at the same time the people affected by this greed are given the perception that since someone wants you, you must have value.
There actually is a psychological thing behind it. A lot of women are into married men and like to go for them because 1. Itās a turn on, 2. They like having what they canāt have and 3. If another woman has him then he MUST be a good man, right ?? So itās like a chase thing. I think thatās pretty gross but it is a real thing
Can second this my girlfriend is a model so she has a pretty large instagram following, and when she started posting pics of me and us together I swear she lost over a thousand followers in the first 24 hours after her first post of me š. That was years ago and she still hasnt recovered follower and like wise. Plenty of dudes still hit on her tho.