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Confessions 15w
Got a bf after many many years and suddenly every man with a pulse is interested šŸ˜¬ how do yall even know like can you smell unavailability haha
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Anonymous 15w

As soon as me and my girlfriend started dating, she told me that the number of likes on her posts and people following her dropped instantly, but also the number of guys sending her flirty messages went way up. I truly donā€™t understand it, but I think itā€™s just some sick fetish of weird desire to get someone to cheat on their partner with them, Iā€™m sorry youā€™re having to deal with that. I find that blocking them without responding is typically the best move.

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Anonymous 15w

The best version of you is the happiest one, thatā€™s why everyone flocking girl

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Anonymous 15w

I think itā€™s because when you have a partner you suddenly feel more confident in yourself, and confidence is attractive

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Anonymous 15w

Iā€™m not in psychology but Iā€™m pretty sure thereā€™s like a ā€œlawā€ for something like this. Because it happens with everyone. Iā€™m a guy and when I was dating someone, the girls and guys wanted to show interest. Where were you when I was single? Same thing happens with a job, the moment you get one, all the other jobs start calling you back.

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Anonymous 15w

Try being in a lesbian relationship. Man i blocked hundreds of creeps when i posted up w my woman šŸ˜­šŸ˜­šŸ˜­ itā€™s so icky that they go for people in relationships

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Anonymous 15w

In all truth, psychologically speaking, we are never truly fulfilled by what we have. This is called greed or avarice and it applies to relationships more than you may believe. As soon as other people catch wind of how you might be taken, at the least their desire to know more might rise. That being said, it does not affect everyone but at the same time the people affected by this greed are given the perception that since someone wants you, you must have value.

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Anonymous 15w

Theyā€™re fucking sharks they can smell it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15w

Yeah blocking has been my move

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

Props to you for doing that honestly youā€™d be surprised how many girls struggled to block creepy guys for some reason. I hope you and your new boyfriend have a wonderful life together. Good luck. :)

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Anonymous 15w

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Anonymous 15w

???

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Anonymous 15w

I donā€™t have any idea what youā€™re talking about and I didnā€™t make anything up, but if thatā€™s what you wanna believe, I really donā€™t give a shit. Bye

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 15w

There actually is a psychological thing behind it. A lot of women are into married men and like to go for them because 1. Itā€™s a turn on, 2. They like having what they canā€™t have and 3. If another woman has him then he MUST be a good man, right ?? So itā€™s like a chase thing. I think thatā€™s pretty gross but it is a real thing

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15w

Can second this my girlfriend is a model so she has a pretty large instagram following, and when she started posting pics of me and us together I swear she lost over a thousand followers in the first 24 hours after her first post of me šŸ˜‚. That was years ago and she still hasnt recovered follower and like wise. Plenty of dudes still hit on her tho.

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Anonymous 15w

I feel like Rikki-Tikki-Tavi, I think the copper saw me But I ain't chain link hopping 'Cause I ain't see no shit

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Anonymous 15w

I just know youā€™ve cheated before bro šŸ˜­

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Anonymous 15w

why would you defend avarice and cheating if someone cheated on you?

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Anonymous 15w

okay buddy

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 15w

The only thing that you got partially right is the last part. Itā€™s because people assume you have something that is worth having because you are in a relationship.

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Anonymous replying to -> blellow_squid39 15w

bro you didnā€™t correct me, you literally just watered down what I said šŸ’€ ā€œPeople want someone more because theyā€™re already in a relationshipā€ is the exact point I made. The chase, validation, and wanting what you canā€™t have are all real psychological behaviors whether you personally like hearing it or not.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 15w

I didnā€™t water down you point I made it more precise. Its not just about them being in a relationship itā€™s the assumptions made about the person because they are in a relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> blellow_squid39 15w

You literally just repeated what I said, that was it šŸ’€

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