I was in this bullshit on the guy‘s side and I wanna give a perspective he might have. I hated when my gf asked for me to write her a paragraph, not because of having to write about her, but because I would already do SO much to show that I love her, and if I didn’t do some paragraph, she acted like I do nothing for her. People always focus on how THEY want to receive love, but try to see if he has a different way of showing it that you didn’t notice. That is, of course, if he is genuine