Anonymous #2 14w

Yeah but like how do I get straight men into it? I’m a girl that would like to be wooed by a man in men’s lingerie.

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Anonymous #3 14w

It’s this kind of attitude that I’m up against. It feels like an unwinnable battle. Do I have to like get into a lavender marriage or something?

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Anonymous OP 14w

Okay Google... what is a lavender marriage

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Anonymous #3 14w

Ahhh gotcha. Is this really a dealbreaker for a marriage?

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Anonymous #3 14w

You’re confusing “men wearing women’s lingerie” with “men wearing men’s lingerie”

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Anonymous #3 14w

No but why is it so hard to get a man that likes women to wear sexy underwear that was meant for his body? Like no one bats an eyelash at a man wanting his woman to wear sexy underwear, but if I want him to do it, I get “I’m not gay.” Obviously! But do it for ME! A woman!

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Anonymous OP 14w

Well I like playing dress up and I’d want my partner to wear certain outfits in bedroom so it’s only fair that I would wear whatever she wanted. So what exactly qualifies as “male lingeire” for you? Because when I said gay scene I meant like g straps and male thongs and stuff

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Anonymous #2 14w

Honestly, I don’t know what I mean. I just know what I don’t mean. Like I don’t want to see a man in lacy panties. You know?

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Anonymous OP 14w

Maybe we don't believe it makes us any sexier and we look ridiculous instead. Tbh it might make it harder to "perform" if we have a lingering feeling of "i look like a clown right now"

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Anonymous #3 14w

That’s a personal issue. Not a uniquely male one. You think all women feel sexy in lingerie?

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Anonymous OP 14w

I also don't expect the women I'm with to wear that nor have I asked for it. And yes tbh I do really think that women think that, especially with how much it costs to buy.

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Anonymous #3 14w

You’ll find that some women are insecure about their bodies. There was a time I didn’t even like taking off my shirt in front of anyone let alone a man because of a birthmark on my stomach. Even if I wore expensive lingerie I still would have felt odd. But that was a me problem. See what I mean?

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Anonymous #6 14w

Wasn’t yours? 😂😭

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Anonymous pleasure.pirate 14w

Oh no it was, he was just confident enough in his masculinity to dive into something he knew I’d like ☺️ lace looks good on everyone

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