Anonymous beestboy 1d

If you don’t know what being bi has to do with this, then that’s your problem to think about

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Anonymous #2 1d

I’ve noticed I’m not big into ‘getting off’ during sex cuz I already get my own pleasure and feel satisfied by pleasuring my partner, but most guys like to take advantage of this and will just lay there and barely even make sounds. Outside the bedroom as well, they won’t take the initiative to compliment me or even little gestures of service (word used very loosely). I think the girls I’ve been with just naturally assumes that kind of ‘pillow princess’ role and won’t take the initiative at all

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Anonymous OP 1d

Currently talking to this girl and we’re discussing hanging out, but why am I the only one asking if she’d like to meet there or ride together? If she’d want to have a little picnic after and checking in to follow up on any allergies she might have just to know what fruits to bring? Don’t get me wrong, I like taking care of my partners, but I hate when that care is taken for granted as in ‘that’s what you’re supposed to do anyways’

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Anonymous OP 1d

I just asked u a question but ok

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Anonymous beestboy 1d

And my answer is, we’re going to have to put on our analysis cap for this one, sweetie. Or just our thinking cap works fine too. Now we’ll start: “As a bi girl”: op is a bi girl, a person who dates two genders. This is essential to mention because, op wants to express that this pattern isn’t just seen in one gender. Any questions? If not, class dismissed^^

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Anonymous OP 1d

but it’s obvious that this isn’t a gender problem? Love not being reciprocated is not a male or female thing, that wasn’t necessary to say. U can do whatever u want tho idc , date better people

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Anonymous beestboy 1d

Now, class, let’s not get too worked up. As a professor, I’ll help everyone understand. In simple terms: the speaker says this not to highlight that it’s a gender problem, but rather the opposite. Now some might think ‘well duh, it’s obviously an individual problem’. However, if op had said “as a girl” or just “I hate…” minus the gender and sexuality part, others might think a guy is pathetic for wanting a girl to do those things or a girl is stupid for assuming the role.

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Anonymous OP 1d

The lesson here, however, is not that the bi girl actually hates the role itself, but has eventually come to dislike it because of the lack of appreciation. Now said bi girl is not asking for worship at her feet, but would like to dispel the idea of ‘well it’s what you usually do/should do anyways, so why would I ‘exaggerate’ praises?’ from her partner.

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Anonymous beestboy 1d

Are we starting to connect the dots?

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Anonymous beestboy 1d

The professor would also like to add that the lack of reciprocity in terms of ‘love’ is not the issue here, nor is it the focal point.

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Anonymous OP 1d

That doesn’t make sense

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