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My bf couldn’t stop checking out our waitress while we were out to dinner a few months ago. this was a day after I told him his comments ab me were making me feel insecure. sometimes I still think about it & it makes my stomach turn.
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Anonymous 9w

Had a gf who insist I would stare at blonde girls (she wasn’t blonde) (I also wasn’t staring) and it got to the point where if I saw one I would stare at my feet cause my gf would see the girl then look to see where I was looking. Do not regret breaking up w her lol

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Anonymous 9w

well girl enjoy the rest of your life dealing with him if he’s still your bf 💕 what a catch

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Anonymous 9w

why are you still with him? 😭

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Anonymous 9w

Was he checking her out or did you think that because his comments had made you insecure? Not saying his comments are ok, but if he corrected that behavior (idk if so ofc), he probably would quit ogling the waitress too. But in my experience, it’s almost impossible to track people’s eyes accurately, especially once your beliefs/biases come into play, so it’s usually better not to torture yourself about them

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9w

Yes, he later admitted himself to checking her out. It was very blatant he literally couldn’t keep his eyes off her the entire dinner. I genuinely thought something was wrong because of how much he was staring behind me.

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