Anonymous #1 1d

I know I can adopt but I’m 21 and still in school and didn’t know I was pregnant until after I miscarried so I’m just kinda thinking about what ifs

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Anonymous OP 1d

Your cost of everything would have gone through the roof you likely would have to drop out of school because you’d need to take care of your child, you’d be in more pain than you have been in your life, all your future plans you’d probably have to give up on. Reality hits a lot harder than you think.

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Anonymous OP 1d

Omgg I’m so sorry, that must’ve been really hard on you

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Anonymous OP 1d

Oh and there was a 50 / 50 shot whoever the father was would either break up with you or disappear. Really depends on that one.

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Anonymous OP 1d

So sorry to hear about that :( miscarriages are definitely traumatic maybe a therapist can help you through this, there are a lot of options for having kids

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Anonymous #2 1d

Well my school has an online option so I wouldn’t have to drop out and my boyfriend very much wants kids and we are having plans to get engaged 😭

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Anonymous OP 1d

Ah then you’d have been fine. I’m sorry what happened to you someone else mentioned therapy and that’s probably a really good idea. Did your doctors say anything about your health? That you should be save to birth a child and the miscarriage was just a freak accident?

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Anonymous #2 23h

Is this real!!? Unmarried fathers disappear?

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