Anonymous #1 1d

I begged him to do a sexual roleplay thing that he’d said no to in the past and I kept begging tn after he told me to stop

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Anonymous OP 1d

Oh I mean I can definitely understand why he may feel frustrated. It might just feel like you aren’t respecting his boundaries when he’s told you no before.

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Anonymous #2 1d

Yes

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Anonymous #1 1d

Yeah I know. I just wasn’t thinking

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Anonymous OP 1d

Okay, good. Just give him some space, let him do what he needs to do if you've already apologized (including the exact ways in which you were wrong/validated his reaction). It sounds like he may have some sort of trauma or previous really bad experience related to this sort of thing?

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Anonymous #2 1d

Well tbh I’m the one with trauma related to it. He kept saying no because he said he didn’t want me to view him as a perpetrator of my trauma

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Anonymous OP 1d

I think now is the best time to just let him have time to himself. Give him that space and show you care about his boundaries further downc

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Anonymous #1 1d

Yeah I’m in my room giving him that space. I just feel really guilty for upsetting him rn

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Anonymous OP 1d

That’s honestly a great and mature reaction for him it give, but if you don’t mind me asking what was the role play thing you wanted to do?

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Anonymous #3 1d

Like a hooker and client roleplay. He didn’t want to do it because I have a past in sex work that has left me really traumatized tbh. I thought it might be fun tho

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