I don’t think I’d ever do it either but I don’t think of it as a dignity and respect thing. It’s just not a life I feel I’m able to lead. I don’t have the constitution. Also, I don’t know these people or their situations. I’m not capable of judging them. It feels… wrong somehow? Idk. I just don’t feel like it’s my place to look down at other people for leading a different life from mine. Is that weird? Like, if no one is making me do it then it kind of doesn’t matter to me.
No I’m judging you like that lifestyle will not last and fast money doesn’t last forever. Look how many women lost their jobs just for having an OF. 18-21 and the first thing you do is put yourself on the internet. That’s not cute nor is it okay. You’re ruining your image before you even hit 30. You don’t have respect for yourself so why do you expect others to respect you? And then if you have kids think about what they’ll have to go through. Getting bullied for what you do.
You’re speaking on a very specific scenario with a person in a very specific circumstance. I understand what you mean with those exact details. A person choosing to do OF with no thought behind it or the implications or the consequences. Yes, that is unfortunate and inadvisable. I too would encourage most people to avoid that lifestyle if they can. I’m just also aware that some people are fine living that way. It doesn’t affect them negatively at all. It just didn’t work out for some.