Anonymous #1 14h

Idk why people are downvoting either. I’m crying because I really don’t like him and don’t wanna be alone with him

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Anonymous OP 14h

you should do something about that before you take it any further. lucky for you that you aren’t married yet. just be careful and stay safe though

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Anonymous #1 14h

I don’t think I have any ways to get out of it right now tbh

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Anonymous OP 14h

there is always a way

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Anonymous #1 14h

Easy for you to say since you aren’t living it. There isn’t always a way and right now I definitely don’t

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Anonymous OP 14h

there is always a way. and i hope you stop telling yourself there isn’t and find that way sooner rather than later

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Anonymous #1 14h

That’s honestly really rude and dismissive of you to say. Comes off as victim blaming.

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Anonymous OP 14h

i’m not victim blaming nor dismissing your struggles. i’m not even saying that you are doing anything wrong. i understand it isn’t always easy to get out of a bad situation but to tell yourself there is no way is just not right and you are putting a barrier where there shouldn’t be one. also i do realize it’s easier said than done. but if you want to make me the enemy and call me rude that’s fine. i wish you well and i pray you find peace and overcome whatever it is you’re going through

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Anonymous #1 14h

If I break up with him I’m homeless and I’ll lose all my loved ones and I’ll never be able to see my sister/my best friend again. How do you suggest I leave when that’s at risk?

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Anonymous OP 14h

that’s a loaded question that’s hard to answer without me know the exact situation you are in and how one thing leads to another. also i don’t know anything about you, your connections, friendships, who you feel comfortable reaching out to or anything. how crazy or controlling he is. so i really dont feel comfortable advising you on anything without knowing much.

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Anonymous #1 14h

That’s a lot of words when you could’ve just said “yeah sorry, sounds like you don’t have options.”

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Anonymous OP 14h

you do have options but i just don’t know them. like i said, there is always a way. some people will tolerate a lot though when the path to make things right is not easy to find or is a rough path.

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Anonymous #1 14h

Okay well I won’t tolerate losing the person who I love more than anything else in the world

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Anonymous OP 13h

being your sister or best friend right? how does leaving him make you lose her?

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Anonymous #1 13h

My sister is my best friend. If I leave him I’ll be shunned from my church and my family and I’ll never be able to talk to any of them again and my parents wouldn’t let her talk to me again

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