Anonymous #1 1d

Yeah not doing that again

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Anonymous OP 1d

i’m talking to a 26 year old now as a woman tho and i can’t pretend it’s not the best

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Anonymous #1 1d

idk i hope he doesn’t mind it, he said im as young as hed go

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Anonymous #1 1d

I mean she said she liked older guys but honestly from the other side i dont see the appeal? Like why go for older men we’re all immature

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Anonymous OP 1d

compared to the bfs i have he is far more emotionally intelligent

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Anonymous #1 1d

Huh. Fair enough. Doesn’t the fact that he looks a lot older cause issues tho

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Anonymous OP 1d

he doesn’t look a lot older tbh

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Anonymous OP 1d

For me the older men appeal isn’t necessarily maturity in the traditional sense, bc my partner is still a bit childlike but we have a huge gap, it’s more so they’ve gotten to the point in their life where they’re not trying to appease others anymore. They know who they are, and know what that looks like, know how they want to present themselves, and are confident with that, they aren’t chasing approval from peers that don’t care about them. It’s very refreshing. Confidence really is everything

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Anonymous #3 1d

Yeah I’d say we have similar maturity levels tbh — maybe I just like it because it’s him lol. But he also knows what he wants in a relationship and I also know that I can achieve my goals faster with him than with someone my age, and that he is more ready than someone my age would be to settle down lol. Not even in tradwife sense but idk

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Anonymous #2 1d

She didn’t lie, and jury’s out on my intelligence, but it just didn’t come up

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Anonymous #3 1d

Hm. I guess i see it. Fair enough

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Anonymous OP 1d

It’s like idc if you play video games and wear graphic tshirts, I do care if you’re constantly making every decision based off the current trends instead of what you like

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