Anonymous #2 11w

Oop

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Anonymous #3 11w

I know, man :(

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Anonymous #1 11w

My friends will hookup with everyone but won’t even talk to his crush 😐

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Anonymous #1 11w

I mean I too refuse to talk to my crush but I am also scared to talk to random people too so lol

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Anonymous #5 11w

No the point is the hardcore unprotected, often extremely intimate sex is generally supposed to come after the two people confess feelings and love for one another. There’s no greater expression of true love between two individuals than physical and sexual intimacy and as a society we have flipped the script on that over the past 30ish years.

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Anonymous #5 11w

So it’s like dawg y’all are having sex regularly with each other, spending time together, doing couples things, yet you refuse to say “I love you” because why? And people wonder why dating nowadays is awful for the most part

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Anonymous littlepenis2.9 11w

so you think the order is backwards. i agree with that, but not about the fear of changing the relationship dynamics. to me, saying i love you is a more meaningful milestone than anything physical.

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Anonymous littlepenis2.9 11w

well i’m in no position to judge other people for how they perceive these things. you think it’s supposed to come after i love you, some people think it’s about as meaningful as kissing. i’ve heard of other people saving their first kiss for their wedding day, i wouldn’t do that, but who are we to dictate how other people should place meaning on certain actions

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Hey so I feel like dolphins also use sex for pleasure too. I could be wrong but I heard it somewhere

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Anonymous #5 11w

I feel like this is somewhat part of the issue. In history sex has always been more important than the confession of love. Hence why sex comes after the wedding. I feel like society has devalued what sex is actually supposed to be other than just to get off

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Anonymous #5 11w

Yeah that’s exactly the issue that I have haha. The most meaningful part should be the foundation, not the other way around

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Anonymous sage_helmet19 11w

I completely agree

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Anonymous littlepenis2.9 11w

No literally

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Crazy take and I don’t know where that came from but aight🤣👍

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Anonymous sage_helmet19 11w

You can’t find Love, Love finds you🫠 We keep it movin tho👏📈

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Lmao thank you

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Bonobos b straight up fuckin all the time and those are our closest relatives (most people think it’s chimps but we’re slightly closer to the bonobo)

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Anonymous #18 11w

That’s why the post nut clarity hits like a vibranium wall

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its highkey cringe, breaching the highest level of physical intimacy just for some pleasure sounds sounds weird to me, thats just me tho

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Anonymous littlepenis2.9 11w

I try to distinguish between “fucking” and “making love”

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Anonymous juicedropplat 11w

same

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Anonymous #22 11w

Typical Mike behavior honestly

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Anonymous littlepenis2.9 11w

OH BROTHER

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Anonymous #4 11w

Like 😭

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Anonymous #22 11w

Like?

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Anonymous littlepenis2.9 11w

Mike?

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Anonymous #23 11w

I’m sorry :( It’s only fair if thou publicly call me out now

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Anonymous poochiee 11w

I wholeheartedly agree

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Anonymous #7 11w

honestly purity culture is a big reason why sex has been more than the confession of love. women were expected to “save themselves for their husbands” and submit to having sex with them whether they loved them or not. i don’t necessarily think society has devalued the meaning of sex but just liberated it’s restrictions

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Anonymous #27 11w

The whole point of something with value is something that is meant to be rare and precious, a society which encourages sex for marriage is placing a higher value on what sex is than a society than encourages no restrictions.

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Anonymous #27 11w

Economically things that are more valued are in general more rare we see this in monetary systems in precious minerals in antique cars the idea that I can have sex with strangers without emotional or spiritual connection is devaluing sex

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Anonymous #4 11w

Every once in a while one of my posts will blow up and then there’s 20 different storylines going on 🤣

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Anonymous littlepenis2.9 11w

Yes exactly! I need to come back later 😭

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Anonymous sheshouldforkme 11w

Something as subjective as love and emotional value doesn’t really compare to something of economical value. You can personally not like an antique car but you can’t change its market value. But there’s no real baseline for how valuable sex and love are “supposed” to be, it’s all based on the individual.

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Anonymous poochiee 11w

My point is that society that encourages casual sex and hookup culture is devaluing sex whereas a culture where sex is the most sacred intimate bond between and man and woman in marriage is valuing it more. This is not only true from a religious perspective if you read the Bible but from a natural biological perspective as in both men and women are brain chemistry changes when we have sex in a process known as pair bonding

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Anonymous littlepenis2.9 11w

Okay Im gonna try reading everything now

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Anonymous sheshouldforkme 11w

What exactly is pair bonding? I have never heard of it before

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Anonymous #14 11w

It really should be the highest form tho

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Anonymous dr.eelyvonwo 11w

And its also like why do we even endorse them? Like seriously do you know?

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Anonymous poochiee 11w

Broooo money is not more important than love wtf

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Anonymous littlepenis2.9 11w

I FINISHED IT

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Anonymous littlepenis2.9 11w

I used to believe that sex is the greatest expression of love between two people but I don’t think that’s always the case. Emotional connections for me are way more intimate and even just looking at my partner will make me cry of joy and that kind of connection was not made thru sex

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Anonymous #30 11w

I understand that 🙂

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