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hot take but I HATE facetiming/ calling for hours. especially when it comes to dating. i have shit to do!! leave me alone!!! get some hobbies!!!! 😭😭😭
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Anonymous 16h

Yeah not like it can be ft while doing things or can be seen as intimacy. You must be great in a relationship

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Anonymous 17h

I feel this in my soul

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Anonymous 16h

oh wow i am the complete opposite

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Anonymous 15h

I love to ft my husband while I’m at college and then we hardly talk at all, it makes me feel closer, he usually cleans or plays video games while I do school work or clean my room, he rambles and I half listen or I ask if something I’m typing sounds right and he answers and we stay like that constantly, we’ve literally stayed on the phone for 26 hours once

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Anonymous 13h

Real as fuck also I hate when they will ask to go to sleep on ft oh absolutely not we aren’t kids

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Anonymous 16h

Much of the time that is only at the start of the relationship where the butterflies are strong. But I get that

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Anonymous 15h

Facts

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Anonymous 16h

Real

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Anonymous 12h

I relate to thus

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Anonymous 11h

lowkey that’s cray asf cuz why don’t u enjoy ur partners presence of all ppl and how does their presence suddenly mean u can’t talk and do shit at the same time yk to make time go faster

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Anonymous 10h

i dislike phones, i dislike texting, i dislike calling, i wish the farthest technology went was cord phones. i wish you had to trust someone that they will pick you up at 7. UGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!

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Anonymous 10h

it’s completely fair to not like being on the phone for a long time but expressing it this way is toxic. Just communicate your boundaries to your partner instead of shaming them for wanting to spend a few hours talking to you

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Anonymous 7h

No I completely agree. Some people saying you can be doing stuff while FaceTiming, but then it’s just awkward. Like let me do my stuff. Plus then you have more to talk about, the next time you see each other

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Anonymous 7h

I actually was beginning to think I should give up on relationships because of this like no I do not want to fall asleep with you

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Anonymous 4h

Ew

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 16h

your opinion is valid though! but me personally i loveee to yap, i actually just ended a situationship because he refused to call me and thinks it’s childish to talk on the phone

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14h

wait I can’t tell if u defending or going against op lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 14h

Against. Op is toxic

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11h

LMFAO me not wanting to call for hours and hours doesnt make me toxic💀💀 me and you just have different ways of seeing intimacy

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 11h

nothing wrong with calling for a couple hours but it gets to a point 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11h

ghosting someone is toxic, but saying you don’t want to be on the phone all the time isn’t. i respect that opinion because they made it clear that’s what they want, even if it’s not what i want.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 11h

bro ive had 72+ hour long phone calls before. had relationships where id be on the phone every single second of every hour. zero alone time. it made me feel suffocated, distracted, overwhelmed, codependent.... definitely not for me😭 but i wish you guys the best! everybodys different man

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 11h

good on you for ending that relationship! its important to be with somebody who matches you :)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

Tbh calling is fine but the texting drives me nuts, sorry I didn’t respond to you within the hour I’m at work

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 10h

calling was meant to be ft

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7h

We’ve been long distance and closeted most of our relationship so being able to call the last three years is fun

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 7h

On the phone

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 Just now

Bruh ur literally on yikyak 😂

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