I just got a new boyfriend. I was scrolling through his Instagram and I discovered that his ex girlfriend has the same name as me. My name is spelled abnormally and it’s even spelled the same. Genuinely what do I do with that?
Are you worried that during s*x he won’t be saying your name but his ex’s name?
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Anonymous6d
Does the name thing really matter tho?Cuz I would brush it off tbh unless he makes it obvious he’s only with you because of your name
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Anonymous6d
If you break up you should get a boyfriend w his exact name as a flex
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Anonymous6d
Ask him if he has a *your name* fetish
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Anonymous#16d
Then I have to admit i was looking through the Instagram
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AnonymousOP6d
Good thinking, but truthfully there isn’t anything wrong with looking through your mans socials from your phone. Thats literally what social media is for
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Anonymous#16d
Yeah but I went to his tagged and found her, that’s how I found it
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Anonymous#26d
Idk maybe? He did say my name once and now I’m just overthinking and wondering if he was thinking about her
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AnonymousOP6d
Did he say “no, not *yourname* the other *yourname*.” Then you’d definitely know…
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Anonymous#26d
No? He also never told me her name tho.
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Anonymous#36d
No, I just wasn’t prepared for it. I’m a little weirded out bc we are both singers, into theatre and have the same name. But we look absolutely nothing alike and he left her so I lowkey just have to cope