Anonymous #2 1d

right like don’t let yourself be completely alone with them when in outdoor or isolated environments. this is coming from a white person, i’ve seen these patterns emerge in people around me out of “seemingly nowhere”

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Anonymous #1 1d

exactly. you can’t trust no one and definitely trust your gut.

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Anonymous #1 1d

we have a trip planned to Spain and now i don’t want to go

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Anonymous OP 1d

girl trust the GUT. are you the only minority or what?

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Anonymous #1 1d

what are the patterns?

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Anonymous #2 1d

i’m the only black woman, but the friend group is 3 white women 2 white guys 1 black guy 1 latina woman

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Anonymous OP 1d

little comments or behaviors that have micro aggressive undertones but are so subtle most people wouldn’t even pick up on them or think to confront them. even LOOKS. like if a Black friend group is out in public and talking or laughing loudly (existing), so many people just STARE or look at them with this kind of disgust, it’s hard to describe unless you’ve seen or experienced it

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Anonymous OP 1d

idk girll maybe just go everywhere with the Black guy and latina.

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Anonymous OP 1d

that seems safer if the group is already diverse!

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Anonymous #1 1d

why do you think they continue being friends with black people? why do they have token black friends even though they hold prejudice?? is there any empathy or is it just sick and twisted

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Anonymous #2 1d

the black guy is super white washed, i don’t think im going to go

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Anonymous OP 1d

a lot of them don’t think they’re racist or have macroaggressions that are distinguishable. they can still love and care for a Black person while simultaneously disliking some or most other Black people. have you ever heard a white person say “one of the good ones”?

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Anonymous #1 1d

yes but that’s so crazy to me!

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Anonymous OP 1d

i think he dmed me before i just blocked him

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Anonymous #2 1d

i just did

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Anonymous OP 1d

yeah don’t go. i hate white washed Black people. it’s good to have a diverse friend group. i hope this case wakes a lot of people who are up.

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Anonymous #2 1d

but remember that assimilation is part of human survival! don’t fault them for a societal problem 😭

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Anonymous OP 1d

these losers are just racist ragebaiters hiding behind a screen. turn off DMs if you ever mention your gender or race, telling you as a friend here 😭

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Anonymous #4 20h

well they sorta left him on the island

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Anonymous #3 20h

didn’t he stay to talk to a girl??

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Anonymous #4 20h

as far as i’m aware no, but either way i would never leave a friend on an island with no transportation back do i think they killed him, absolutely not but they were certainly part of the problem

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Anonymous #3 17h

im pretty sure he stayed to talk to a girl named Katie, or am I reading that wrong? if you tell your friend to come back on the boat with you and he doesn’t listen and decides to stay on the island what are you supposed to do?

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Anonymous #4 15h

not leave them on an island

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